I tend to go for men that are a little shy and need the woman to make the moves (I like heavier men so maybe they’re a little insecure as well). But I always end up getting ghosted or it just doesn’t go to a serious place, so I’m wondering if maybe my personality is a lot for them. They tell me they’re into me, and I’ve connected with a handful of guys after not hearing from them for months and they ended up telling me that they assumed that I wasn’t interested, and I thought they weren’t. I’m goofy, outgoing, honest, straightforward.. I can’t figure out how to get my relationships to progress.