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In order for me to be interested in somebody - they have to live a prudent and acceptable lifestyle - I've met mentally challenged people with horrendous personalities - they thought that due to their disability - they no longer had a duty to be a decent person - and they just leeched off others and acted like total jerks. For example asking you for money when they waste theirs on things they don't need. Lying to you every chance they get so they can date you or threatening suicide to get attention instead of getting attention by being kind and honourable and humble. If somebody is retarded but acts smart and lives a decent life - he or she is worthy of a relationship.
It's 100% a case by case basis. Some persons with special needs are very high functioning and very cognizant of the world around them and there wouldn't really be a question of whether they are fully aware of what it means to date or engage in other bf/gf activities with someone else, and then there are those that let's say, in a legal case, would not be allowed to testify because of certain deficiencies. You can't make that judgment based on how someone looks or what you think their level of disability or special needs is--you'd have to know them and their medical history.
Certainly, special needs folks are people too and have the same desires and drives that you do. Little difference from people with mental illnesses. They deserve the same rights and experiences as everyone else.The only big difference is most people in these circumstances take the question of having kids more seriously. Manny decide to not have kids so that they don't chance putting their kids through the same painful experiences they've had. Others decide to have kids knowing they're better prepared than most parents to help them through those experiences.
If you are speaking of your last date, and want to find out, whether your girl was into you or not, then stop assuming.If it was someone elase, some other couple, observe for longer than what "looking" would be like. Ask if you have any questions. Be direct. Stop assuming.To put simply, your question and explanation complete one single loop
If both people are ok with it and neither is taking advantage of the other, i dont see a problem with it.
Yes but it's on the person without special needs terms. You can never deserve to be loved by someone you can only gain the love of someone. A person with special needs should be extra happy if they manage to find someone and if they do it should be more than okey we should be happy for them.
I have a mental disability bipolar, and I feel like some guys would not want to mix with me because of it , they don't want there kids to have it and they don't want to be with someone like this. So when I get a normal guy who would love me regardless that would be commendable on his part.
I also wear glasses , and some sighted guys don't want to mix with a glasses girl.
I think most men just don't want to be yelled at. That's why they would shy away from someone with your condition.
I have aspergers, I realized when I got a boyfriend I guess it was pretty hard for him and me to be normal, cause I have problems socially and shit and his friends didn't like that. I'm also very quiet. I think dating me is dating someone with special needs, but ofc I think it's okay, everyone wants love!💜
I don't know, it seems wrong to meMaybe if she was high functioning autistic it wouldn't be so bad. I think guys who target women with disabilities are trying to take advantage of them
Of fucking course. Special needs are common. Plus just cuz someones life is harder doesn't mean they don't deserve love
well you can't force someone to date you. if a special needs person finds a date that wants to date then, then of course it's ok. it's mutual choice.
I think it's okay for anyone to date whoever they want as long as they're both consenting adults who aren't like... related or anything.
It’s ok but sometimes it’s a fetish which is weird.
Doesn't matter if it's a fetish if they are both getting what they want.
Do you need special needs like retarded? Or crippled?
It’s a free country If a “normal” person is willing to date someone with special needs, I think that’s great for both of them
Who are you to judge? Let them be them and mind your own business.
Of course it's okay. You shouldn't judge someone for something that they can't help that they have. Geez.
Yea but is it legal?
@IreallyhateGAG Yeah, it's legal :/ Why would it not be?
Because people cannot just be out hooking up with retarded people who cannot consent to it
She might have been fine intellectually just have some sort of neurological disorder.
I try not to overthink it and not to judge. To each his own
People with special needs deserve love too. If they find someone that makes them happy then we should just let t be happy.
It's ok why wouldn't it be?
You're serious?Why would it not be?
To each there own.
Why wouldn't it be?
All women act like they have special needs
lol hahahha, this made me laugh
If it makes both of you happy then yes
It depends on the situation
Just be free and happy
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