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Advice on getting better at approaching guys?

It's the 21st century, i don't think it's fair that we always expect guys to be the ones putting themselves out there so I want to get better at approaching guys I'm interested in.

The problem is that I find it so hard to do. I don't have good self esteem so I feel like guys will be grossed out by me if I approach them and show that I'm interested but im not sure if this is true?

And I worry that if I text a guy whos added me on Facebook and try to encourage conversation that he will think I'm desperately and annoying.

And do guys feel like girls who try to work on putting effort into getting to know them are loosers or desperate?

And finally, how do I go about showing interest and sparking up a conversation with guys I'm interested in?
Advice on getting better at approaching guys?
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