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People who ghost are either forgetful, insensitive, or cruel. The forgetful ones honestly just forget that they were talking to the person. The insensitive ones don’t realize how ghosting can make the other person feel. The cruel ones do it on purpose because they like toying with people and leading them on. Whatever the case, yes, they should really tell the person what’s up before straight-up disappearing.
Because sometimes you've already tried that, and they won't accept it?
No, but I've been ghosted countless times, so I feel your pain.I agree with you: what's so hard about telling someone you're not interested in them? I cannot stand when someone does that! Especially the ones that claim they like you, then they disappear without a trace- come on! Don't get my hopes up then leave me wondering was it me or something else.
I just told them. im. dying. so they don't need to wonder why I'm gone. the answer is I'm dead
Well, that's providing closure, but it's neither being hones nor sparing the person's feelings (unless they believe that you're really dead) Sounds like a lose-lose, no?
before I told this, my health condition is getting worst, and I can't reach them out often and they understand.. so I think they probably think i already dead. but yeah.. I'm on healing process. it takes a long time. I don't know when I'll feel 100% okay.
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