Damn dude I didn't even think of the hook up zone that is definitely much worse than a friend zone.
I got put in the hook-up zone for the first girl I loved, where she would call me after she got out of the club with her friends (after we dated for a little under a year), or even back from a date with another guy, and I can tell you it was absolutely terrible emotionally... Probably why I cheat now, I don't know.
Damn man, I'm sorry for that but you aren't doing any justice by cheating. Sounds to me you need a mental break work on yourself and get your head straight. Take sometime to figure things out. Constant cheating isn't gonna lead you to happiness in fact it'll make you feel empty. That being said i hope everything works out for you.
You're right. I'm doing some traveling overseas to get some air, and just base-jumped this past weekend to get some perspective.
Very nice I hope your life stays Cheeki Breeki my friend
It's not I think I made have not asked clearly what I was meaning to say is it common for a girl to be into a guy and the guy to want to be just friends
Oh... Yeah, probably.
That's an interesting issue, but wouldn't they be placed in a slightly different zone. For instance, isn't that termed "benching," as opposed to making them an inanimate object?
@mattdzz a guy (or girl) can be benched until the final decision has been made to:1. accept the person as bf/gf, in which case he/she is automatically out of the friendzone/bench2. reject the person and where this benched person joins the pool of all other aspiring bf/gf waiting in this infamous friendzone that you guys fear so much.To summarize: The entire world population of the opposite gender minus one is automatically in the friendzone for a normal person that only has on official bf/gf.
I don't agree. People are only as loyal as their options.
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