WHaT aM i? ~BDSM?

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I guess I'll start this off by saying that I'm new to the lifestyle & have many questions that need answers, so bear with me.
For the longest time, I've identified as a submissive, but then I got to thinking.. hmm maybe it would be nice for me to take control every once in a while, which you would think would make me a switch. However, it's really not in It's not in my nature to inflict pain onto another person. I'm not AT ALL sadistic, masochistic yet, but sadistic.. absolutely not. If anything, if I were to take control, it would be completely sensation/pleasure based with the feathers and whatnot where I'm essentially serving my partner. With that said, I'm wondering whether or not that makes me a switch or if there's another, more specific term for what exactly I am?

Thanks for the help☺💜
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11 mo
I put this in the wrong category! Sorry!!😩
WHaT aM i? ~BDSM?
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