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I don't care about what other people prefer racially, but please do not convince others or push what you like just because you disagree with someone's taste. Like here on gag I read, one guy said he doesn't find Asian women to be attractive and he only dates White and Latina. Suddenly this guy came and posted a half naked photo of Asian woman calling him gay just because that's what he likes. I also saw some people who mocked the member of their race who are in interracial relationships with particular races and even suggested them to date "XYZ" race instead. I think these people are ignorant. They want others to agree with what they find attractive to validate their taste. Really sad.
Ok well why do you only want to date one race?
Preference. I prefer how guys of a certain race look, and how their culture is. Tbh i do not want my child to look in certain ways that people of some races do. I want her/him to look like me
You do realize it takes two people to make a baby right? And you do realize there's a chance that the baby will look more like the father than you. And dating a certain race so your baby looks like you seem incredibly petty and superficial in my opinion. Not to mention incredibly limiting. Well I guess if the only standard is the guy's skin color then I guess it's not really too limiting.
I mean if the man is for example east Asian and my baby ends up having monolids, that will be way more different looking than how my baby would look like when a man from same race as me is the father.
Ok what if your baby ends up getting monolids anyways with the same race? Or what if the baby has a birth defect? Again I think it's very dumb to date because you want your baby to look like you.
Each race is different, some have a certain look, or attitude that puts someone off, or they maybe specifically attracted to. For instance, I'm half European/Chinese. Some guys are like hell-yeah, they like the Asian look, some, for some reason find it impossible to be attracted to a girl that looks like me, understandable, we all have preference.I have discovered, that I've been mostly attracted to European men with dark hair so far in my life. And personally, I don't understand why people are so upset by it. Just because I find myself attracted to a certain type doesn't mean I don't think that all races are beautiful and deserving.
Well if a person specifically says they will only date within their race I just think it is a bit limiting but you are right we shouldn't care. If that is how a person thinks then that is what they should do otherwise they might make someone else unhappy. The thing is even if they say they will only date within their race that actually might put some people off in their own race and then not want to date them. I understand maybe wanting only to date within one's culture then it would most of the time mean dating within ones race especially in countries which are most homogeneous. Some people just end up with people of their own race by chance meaning that person is the best fit. I tend not to gravitate toward men of my own race or ethnicity which I view as a possible negative thing on my part because I might bypass perfectly good men in the process.
Interracial breeding is not really genetically wise.They report higher amounts of health problems, behavioral problems etc, and beyond that we're all programmed to prefer the propagation of our own "tribe'.Simple nature. Unfortunately that doesn't allow for the media brainwashing that shit in to you every chance they get.
I find kids to have more birth defects from parent of the same race
@mixedmagictwi what a shame that science and medicine both say you're wrong.I'm totally sure you're right though. Those doctors and scientists and researchers are just the worst, right?
From what I have seen sweetie, I work around a-lot of people who have mental illness most are not mixed
Because some people are sensitive snowflakes who can’t handle others having a preference.
Its mostly insecure people who need validation that they are doing the right thing and as you are not doing what they want to do then you are wrong as you mix with what they hold as true
Some are just curious , and would love to understand their logic behind it. Some feel that those outside of your race is inadequate due to racism Last but not least they may secretly like you to be theirs.
What do you mean white girls secretly like black guys Or white girls who like black guys secretly love white guys?
I just mean that those want to understand is all
I think it’s sometimes more a matter of disappointment.
Yes, it's definitely each person's prerogative. But it shows a lack of acceptance and openness, which is sad.
Because nowadays people like to complain for anything, even if it has nothing to do with them.
You should only stick to the lakes and rivers you're used to. Stop chasing waterfalls. Really disturbs me when I'm out in a grocery store and I see a white female by herself (im attracted to white women) and I think wow she's hot. Then here walks up an someone from another race other than her own. I immediately feel disgusted, and I really don't know why, just seems spiteful. The women have no idea of how trashy it looks and are actually ok with it.
how do you know she wasn't raised around that race and not her own? Not every white is raised around whites and not every black is raised around blacks.
I don't mind, but if they parade about it, it's only a matter of time until they receive a response from people
Cuz they wanna he angry. I only date white girls. The amount of shit I get for this is nuts. Never an issue when another minority race wants to date inside theirs though.
I agree that it is so stupid. I ignore people that try to control me so they feel better about themselves.
White guys subconsciously like asains for being submissive and unapologetic to their race-- black guys like white women for the same thing. A lot of people feel unattractive to the people they identify with so they become attracted to an object or idea that is reinforced by sex positive stereotypes and even negative ones. It's about control.
@spaghettiHoes I wouldn't call Asian girls submissive but I would say they tend to have good character and have more conservative values that align with mine.Well I've done great with white women lol but I actually tend to prefer women outside of my race physically. They just tend to have features that I'm more attracted to. There are gorgeous white women but percentage wise I just don't see many of them.
Because multiculturalism is Bae these days and if you're not down, you're a bigot and I'm a good person for calling it out (sarcasm).
I think the reason said people feel that way is becouse they believe that by doing so the other person is excluding others by race.
Because it's racism. Dictionary definition of racism - "Discrimination or prejudice based on race". It's fine to have preferences which may exclude most people (or even all) persons a race. Someone from any race can have any features
That hit me like a truck.
Hope you survived!
They’re stupid basically. They have no life so they’re obsessed with other people.
Some people just aren't happy unless they're pissed off about something.
they feel threatened and offended that they're not good enough
I think it's understandable when people want to date a certain race.
It feels personal kinda like how guys reject me because I’m not white
You are just 14 ignore those guys
They get even more mad if I want to date my own race. Sorry, not into the whole interracial thing. It’s just not for me.
That's a good point
Same reason why society has a problem with black men dating non black girls but are okay with white men dating interracially
I agree with people being harsh on black men specially when they date white girls, which is weird for me but yea
I dont date white girls. I like my own which is latinas but yet again society sees me as African American considering that I'm Dominican. I do get more attention from latinas than black women
Because they are annoyed they aren't in someone's dating pool
Simply, tribalism. Plus feeling offended over minor issues seems to be an Olympic sport these days which people revel in.
Cuz they feel they aren't good enough. No one wants to be excluded solely based on something they can't change. It may be prefernce but to some it feels like prejudice.
The hive mind demands diversity and equality. Such people are guilty of thought crimes and racism.
I don't date humans. I only prefer dating aliens. 👽👽👽👽👽 👽
Because they're nosey. Just like people pressed when a younger man wants to marry an older woman.
I don't know. It doesn't matter the race that I date.
As they feel excluded while it's only fair for people to like someone who shares your beliefs.
cuz people try to tell people what they think is right
Everyone does that. If you say people shouldn't tell others what's right or wrong, you're telling them what you think is right...
@Xyline789 I'm saying most do what they want if you say 1 thing
right, i don't get either , i get called racist because i only date white women.
Aren't you black lol someone told me that
Because it usually means they have loe self esteem or hate themself.
Usually problems with being the rejected.
I mean unless someone is interested in the person who has this opinion, i dont see reason for jealousy
Insecure people have problems with being rejected before even being interested in someone that is the preferred gender.
Because you have a biological need to continue ones own tribe.
Only bothers me if you lie. Otherwise eh
Uhm... "pressed?" What are you talking about?
Some for real do get pressed
... Again, what? What does that mean? Did you mean to say "depressed?"
pressed means getting mad over something
@mixedmagictwi Oh. Never heard that. Weird.
Because they're whiny little bitches.
i don't have an opinion
Because it feels like a personal attack sometimes.
Why? I don't see it unless u r interested in the person who says that
I don't know. Just saying that some people feel that way. They see it as racist. It may be a preference, but technically, based on denotation is sort of racism, minor though it may be.
I don't know they're weird
Because people look or any excuse to be offended
BBC would be me if I was a chick... just saying
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