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not unless you want to be bitched and compared to behind your back?Even co workers can sow seeds of destruction and sabotage. Let’s say you and i should not worry and we are bold confident women, how about the women who have first heard the gushes or praise of you and for ulterior purposes of getting their work a priority to be attended to by your boyfriend, they start influencing his opinions of you?Your looks, fashion and style, your walk, your hair, your thoughts and preferences slowly turned against you?It will happen but what do you do if he is adamant about keeping his female friends?invite one at a time and if you can outshine.never deny then you have to hold your head high and be above take the high road but subterfuge is required only with imminent hints of their catty ness.don’t draw out your defense in front your boyfriend. Act grand and her behavior will speak for itself.unless you sense change in your boyfriend don’t retaliate.some subtle moves are to enquire about her in depth from your boyfriend and you take the opportunity to subtly mention what you do differently. This includes everything that sets you a class apart.just by talk don’t go out of your way to be too sweet. Do not come across as a nice girl apparently not many will see you as amazing but sabotage your relationship. just do what you must in turn behind closed doors to impress then again by any means femininely, your boyfriend to be addicted to you.
It's okay as long as he respects your boundaries and has established friendship boundaries with his female friends. If they flirt with him, and they're very touchy feely with him, and it makes you uncomfortable, you should tell him that. If he genuinely loves you, he'll respect your boundaries. In situations like this, it's not always about trust, like some people here have assumed. It's about respect. Someone may be very trustworthy and never cheat , and their partner may trust them 100% , but it would still be wrong to behave a certain way with the opposite sex. Just because you trust your partner that doesn't mean they can behave how they want in the relationship. If it was only about how much you trust your partner , then it would be okay for a male and female friend to lie naked in bed all night when they both have partners. So it's ridiculous for anyone to assume it's all about trust. I believe some behaviours from a partner should never be tolerated. It's not a form of control if you establish boundaries, It's about respecting yourself and knowing you're own worth. Allowing your partner to treat you a certain way that your uncomfortable with, means he's controlling your boundaries.
If he wants to be unfaithful, trying to eliminate his opportunities is a losing cause, and he will resent you for restraining his freedoms. Let him make the decision about how much contact to have with his female friends. If you can't trust him, why are you in a relationship with him?
YES and you not liking them doesn't come into play. Would the two female friends be OKAY if you did like them? Make sure you look deep inside yourself and make sure this just isn't insecurity talking. That kind of possessive behavior is a huge turn off.
Yes it is simply because they're just friends, if you see any signs that there's more to it then just being friends, just be direct to him and that friend of his and ask questions to both of them to see what's really going on.I'm in a friend group of only women and my partners were worried I was going to have feeling for one of them, but since they told me I explained to them about my past with them and was honest, then my partner asked that person about us and she got all she needed to trust me about what I said was between my female friends and I
Don't worry women don't approach. He's obviously a quality guy other girls like so that means their fear of approaching and rejection is even greater. The worst they'll do is send out 'hints' that will go over his head. But ultimately it's a competitive world. If you want to keep a quality guy you need to show him you stand above the rest. Getting jealous will only make him want to become single again and move on to those other girls.
Yes, it's okay for him to have female friends, he just needs to have appropriate boundaries with them. They need to be just that, friends, nothing else. Also, it's important to be able to trust your boyfriend to do the right thing if a girl flirts with him. If he truly loves you, he will not engage with the flirting and will set clear boundaries.
Yes but not touchy touch, even friend can have a go at your boyfriend. Stop it set him the boundaries, tell him you don't like it. Ask him if he would like you doing the same? If he continues to get rid of him. I am also a very tactile man and love to hug ladies until my wife told me that only x and y were allowed to hug me. I happily agreed. I don't like dancing when we go out, so my wife dances with mainly our friends, if the guy becomes a little touchy she tell him to lost.
Personally, most of my friends are female, one is even an ex, but our relationships are purely platonic. 2 things: 1) you need to trust him, if you can't, there's probably a reason for it. 2) flirty and touchy are one thing, but simple gestures like hugging, hands on shoulders, or even dancing are just signs of being comfortable with someone, and what some could perceive as deviant, could just be friendly human contact between two friends.
Every couple is different. I feel like if you dont want him to have female friends, you are not going to have Male friends in return? However, I would not appreciate his friend being flirty and I would start a conversation about how it makes you uncomfortable. Guys can be oblivious sometimes and need things pointed out to them.
It's OK for him to have female friends. But there needs to be boundaries that work for you. Boundaries such as how often, how long of a time, not with an ex, not certain activities, etc.
This is just my opinion. But you need to trust your man. Let him hang out with his friends, even if they're female. This exact thing - not trusting - destroyed my 20 year marriage. I wasn't going to cheat on my wife, but she suddenly thought I was... just because I had a lot of female friends. It only took a few months from that point before we were done.
If they’re no more than friends it shouldn’t make a difference. I’ve had female friends that I didn’t want to date. (Not out of dislike, just not seeming to be my type for that sort of thing.) They can be like a sister to me.
No, he is humping both of them on the side. Get yourself checked for STD's frequently.
Of course it's okay. Your insecurities are not his fault. And if you have a legitimate reason not to trust him, then why are you with him?
Don't you have guy friends, and at least one that lusts for you, but you don't even know?
Yes he can hav female friends. If one of them is too touchy for your liking, tell your boyfriend in private. Do NOT make a scene with other people around.
It's his job to let her know flirting and being all touchy is not okay.Personally I would not date a guy that has close female friends. For the sake of my own inner peace.
I would say so alongs he doesn’t cheat and give in to their flirting or sexual advances. He should invite tou to hang out with him when he hangs out with his two female friends. You have to remember they were there before you
It's okay if he treats them as friends and only as friends. It doesn't matter what they will do cuz he only sees you- It's when his friendship takes a different turn where you should be bothered
It's All very much fine. Not only a man to have female friends, but a girl to have male friends too... Cuz that's a greatest loyalty test for both of'em
Yes, absolutely but it doesn’t mean you have to be best friends with them as well. Just like he doesn’t have to be best friends with your guy friends either. Or, you might all get along.
Reverse the situation and it's your Male friends doing that to you? How would you or he handle it. Besides tell him you dont like them or what they do. I tell my girl that about her friends she listens to an extent though.Just talk to him
Yes it should be fine as long as you have trust there's no secrets it lies or hidden feelings then it shouldn't be a problem having female friends!
You can talk about it with him, but in the end you have no say on who he can talk to. It's your boyfriend, not your servant.
Yes it's ok. Would it be ok with you if he said you weren't allowed to have male friends? Don't be a hypocrite with double standards
Ask him to set some boundaries with them. If he won't you know where you stand with him.
Of course. If you think it's not a good idea there are one of two reasons for you thinking that.1) He has a history of cheating on your or2) You are insecure and jealous.
Flirty and touchy usually means there was a physical relationship at some time in the past. If a female friend is like that even though she knows he has a girlfriend she's demonstrating total disrespect for that girlfriend.
I think you should let him do what he pleases, but if you guys are in a happy relationship i’m sure he will tell you. if you guys are on the rocks, I wouldn’t turn a blind eye and possibly confront the friend and boyfriend
Yes, why not?Try to get to know them better, you might actually end up being great friends with those girl as well.
It is okay why not trust him a bit if he cheats you also know what to do.
100% yes it is okay for him to have female friends What a stupid question
Yes it's fine if your boyfriend has female friends as long as they don't flirt
I once a guy friend tell me that guys don’t have girl friends. Only if they want something else. I don’t know?
If they are respectful of your relationship then yes that's perfectly healthy and normal. But it sounds like the flirty one needs to go. If she was really his friend she wouldn't try and interfere.
I have a close female friend who's very dear to me, but I'm not romantically interested in her. I wouldn't tolerate being told I can't be friends with her.
I wouldn’t like it. It would feel like they were always flirting behind me. But before forcing him to cut them out, kindly tell him how you’re feeling about them
Yes, but if they flirt with him, and he plays, you should talk to him about it.
Yes as long as you know that he never hooks up with them
I dont see why not but, if you feel so strongly about it tell him
Yes, he probably knew them for longer than he knows you and yet he didn't choose them. Also the girlfriends/boyfriends have no business dictating someone who can they be friends with, because abusive and controlling partners do that.
Should be okay. Don't be controlling of his life, nobody likes that.
Of course let him. It’s also a good way to see how loyal he is...
Yes. Friends should not only be of a specific sex. That's insane that some people have that rule. That's jealousy.
Talk to him about how you feel, don’t tell him not to have girl friends just let him know you feel uncomfortable with the girl that touches him a lot
If you don’t trust him then you shouldn’t be with him. I wouldn’t be with anyone I didn’t trust.
Demand that they must give you tributes of oral sex if they want to spend time with him.
Only if none of them are hotter than you
Yes if you have Male friends.
Tell what u feel the possessiveness about him
Don't you have any male friends?
Welcome to the adult world. Perfectly normal.
If you’re concerned she’s out to cheat with him though then warn your partner of your concerns. I did this with one of my exes and he noted it so was more aware of her game then and made an effort to nip it in the bud. We girls aren’t daft, we know what’s up with certain other girls.
the flirty touchy feely one needs to be murdered.
Yeah that’s fine long as he has firm boundaries
Yes of course !
Totally ok. You're going to have to get over it.
Of course it is.
I don't think it is
Yeah he can be friends with whoever he wants.
No, men can't be trusted any more than women.
Dude u were supposed to be on our side
Just spilling the truth
And that’s on that
Yes means he not gay
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