Remember.. you complete you not a partner. A partner compliments your life they don't complete it. You share each other's completeness.
Pursuing and approaching*
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I alos love being approached by men, i believe they should ask me out, ask for my number, pay for the date, hold the door for me etc. I am just a very direct, impatient and fiery person so sometimes I ask for dates but I truly prefer when it is the man doing som
So many downvotes for you. You sound fucking adorable to me though.
so she chooses to do everything like a man and demands to be treated like one but when it comes to dating she "chose" to go back to tradtions and sit on her butt waiting for men to approach? hmmm interesting, do you really thing your words are fooling anyone?
Is that not hypocritical and contradictory also confusing
I don’t think it is. Who says to be strong or empowered that you have to be the one doing the pursuing? Being empowered means that you can choose how you life and do as you please.
That's actually not what it means. It simply means you would like a partner but aren't helpless without one. It means you have your life sorted out and have completed yourself without needing someone else to do that.In life... sometimes we are the hunter and sometimes we are the prey. In relationships sometimes we are the lead singer and sometimes we're the backup vocalist. It isn't my business of course, but if I were you I'd be open at being both a hunter and the prey.
I am both.
Great to hear! 😊
Don’t you think it’s hypocritical for two men to say they are sTrOnG iNdEpEnDeNt don’t need no man feminist but still expect to be wooed by men
but if a man says he wants to be taken care a bit does that mean he can't be strong too. Men like to be babied sometimes but still want to be independent.
Ikr these two terms have nothing to do with eachother
When women say theyre empowered and strong they mean " i can do anything a man can do" ... well we approach women, can you approach men?
@3rdSrike They’re saying they can, not that they want to. And “empowered and strong” doesn’t always refer to a comparison between genders. It could mean she feels that way because she achieved something or she’s doing well. People gain empowerment and strength in different ways.
if she doesn't then she can't its really as simple as that
@3rdSrike That’s blatantly false. There are plenty of things people are capable of but choose not to do.
if i say i can do backflips then i better show it, and if women say they can approach men then do it
@3rdSrike You really don’t have to unless you want to, and neither do they. And like I said earlier, empowerment and strength aren’t always related to proving we’re just as capable as men at everything. A woman can feel strong and empowered when she does something she’s good at that and that makes her happy, but she knows a lot of men are better at something else. Strength and empowerment come in different forms.
@3rdSrike just because they can, doesn't mean they want to. They want same privileges men have, same rights, same laws. And many women do approach men I see it all the time. There is a difference between tradition and equality. Men are free to complain the same way you do and be equal in waiting for the woman to approach them if that is what they want. At the end of the day it's all stupid. If you like a person, you will do something, regardless of your gender.
Exact opposite. They leave themselves in a position of weakness because they only consider men who approach men instead of choosing the men themselves. That's as weak as it gets. You have abdicated your control over your options.
It's a matter of opinion and perspective everyone is going to feel different. I don't feel powerless telling a potential date yes or no
Feeling powerless and being powerless are two entirely different things. The best guy for you could never approach you for a zillion different reasons, and if you're never willing to put forth the effort then some other girl could easily swoop in and snag him. Whether or not you feel powerless is irrelevant. Feelings and reality are seldom similar.
I think for me personally I go for what I want but I understand waiting for the first move also. And maybe they are not the right person because they don't approach
And all the privileges with none of the responsibilities.