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The only way I would take my ex back is if she came to me and said "this is your kid" and it actually was my kid. Which is impossible bc we never slept together, which she takes as an insult but she was underage at the time and I didn't want her to hit me with a case but I digress. That's the only way it would ever happen. Even then I might still prefer the child support lol
If I were single? There are a couple of women I might like to see again. They were attractive and interesting. It didn't work out the first time but there's a chance we might have matured enough to make it work now. The one that has the biggest mind-share has gained too much weight for me to try again with her. :-(
1. He would have to convince me he is not going to ghost me if he has another health issue2. He would have to limit his contact with his female friends3. He would have to do something to show he is committed such as wanting to purchase a property together or planning a road trip together or cooking for me.
Right his wrongs. When we first met in college (before we dated), he did things that completely turned me off. It gave me a feeling that he didn't care for me as a human being. Funny thing is, he doesn't even remember what he did. I'll never forget though. Guess some things are just unforgivable... maybe
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I don't have any exes that I would take back. The only one that I might have considered is now married with a baby. So none for me.
Dammit why was i makin out with that bastard ex 1 in my dream last night 🤢🤮 but id take back ex 2 if he came with a major apology, a proposal, his half of the rent, and an agreement to start a family in 2021 like he initially preferred in the first place. Other than that, screw him
I’m not at all against taking an ex back as long as the circumstances of the break up had more to do with timing. If we broke up on good terms because we were both busy or just not ready for each other at that time, then I have no problem getting back with them as long as the feelings are still there.
This question is flawed because there are always other options if you are willing to go out and find them. You should never need to go back to an ex. And if you do it wasn't a genuine relationship, only one built on dependency because you weren't capable of providing for yourself.
A fucking lobotomy and an interest in masochism/self harm by proxy. He was an abusive asshole. It took me too long to get out of that situation, short of holding a gun to one of my family members heads there is NOTHING that would make me get back together with that piece of garbage.
I wouldn't take either of my exes back. We're just not compatible and there's not much than can be done about that. I still respect them and we still get along (one is still a good friend; we were friends since childhood before dating), but we just weren't meant for each other.
If she could change her age to be like 10 to 15 years less and could take back all the drugs and guys she fucked since we broke up id definitely go back with her in an instant. Right now she's got nothing to offer me. I can get an old slut druggie without even leaving my house on tinder. Shit i can get a younger slut on tinder. Smh.
She is pretty so I'd accept her for a one-night-stand. But for a relationship she can't be trusted. She told me, "I'll never cheat." A week later some guy contacted her, and after exchanges messages, a week later she went to Houston to visit and I assumed had sex for few days and then she dumped me.
I... couldn't do it. Nothing he could say or do would convince me otherwise 🤷♀️I've outgrown him, emotionally, mentally, and physically for sure. He could be a millionaire and I'd still reject him!
Tbh, a lot. Not because he was bad. He was an absolute sweetheart. I was terrible, lol.But I just feel like that such old history, so many factors would have to come to play for me to get back with him. And I'm happy where I am already.
Depends the reasons for the Break up. I will not take him back for 5 reasons: 1. If there is NO LOVE ❤️and 2. if He cheated on me with another woman.3. If he’s a lier.4. If there’s domestic violence.5. If he’s a drug abuser.I WILL DEFINITELY NOT TAKE HIM back!! But if were reasons that can be talked and fixable and can come to an arrangement and I still love him? Why NOT give a second try? 😃
If I had to take my Ex back, the guy whom I cheated on, the guy whose heart I broke only because when he wasn't even there I offered up and gave oral pleasure to another guy in what was a weak moment, and he dumps me publicly on Facebook as a hoe and a cheat? Well if I have to have him back he would have to first watch me put out to every thug in the hood because he might as well know what it's going to look like when I cheat on him again because its happening.
How do you live with yourself? I've read many of your questions
Meant for "Entertainment Purposes Only" didn't mean to offend.
Naw was sarcasm, but you are a very honest person
He would have to put a gun to my head and force me to get back together with him. There’s no other way he could convince me to get back together without threatening my life. He was an awful boyfriend, a nightmarish ex, and he has a kid now so I have absolutely no interest in getting back with him.
Having a gun pointed at my head... NEVER THE HECK WILL I EVERRRRR !! YOU couldn't even give me a zillion dollars n expect me to do so.. by the way my ex is extremely wealthy n I STILL LEFT.
Start going to therapy so he can process his emotions and the trauma he's gone throughGet a job and keep itStop lyingBe much more matureJust be a nicer person who isn't self centeredEven if he did all that, I'm not taking him back. He hurt me too badly and I've moved on.
Nothing he can do. I'm married with kids now, and it's been a long time since we broke up. I don't hate him, but I will never, even if something happened between me and my husband, feel that kind of love for him again.
If we had only broken up once or twice before at the most, and let's say the first or second time I break up with the girl, and she is mature about the whole thing, and doesn't talk about change but actually goes out and tackles those changes needed to occur, and at least projects this in her behavior. And still only if the circumstances glaze the top of that with more sugar. Then a new first date may be a possibility. There is always a road available for Redemption
you always have a choice but i believe that feeling sorry for how you broke up with the person is how most get back together and then there are those who will get back together for the sole reason to drop the other harder then you were dumped
I once Had a Husband out in Egypt, Became an Ex, A Friend and Then... The End. xxoo
I forgive him but would not take him back for he is my ex for a reason ! Thanks
I would need reason to believe that whatever ended our last relationship won't happen again.
I wouldn't take them back because I have moved on. But it would take a lot of change in their part to convince nme. And really be open honest and transparent
She would have to be a multi-trillionaire with a compulsion to turn all her money over to me, and she'd have to have a completely different personality, eliminate her entire family, and lose about 100 pounds (not kidding on the 100 pounds she went totally EWWWWWWW after the breakup).
Depends why i broke up with them. If it was because i wasn't ready, then i would be willing to get back with them after i am ready. If it was because she needed to change, she would have to make some serious changes.
All she needs to do is apologizeBut she is so unaware and selfish, she never will see all the wrong she did
Stopped being a jealous ass hoe. Smoking. Open and honest about his feelings. Being an alcoholic
As crazy as it sounds, I think we would actually work out now. Not that it would happen, and we have both moved on, but I don't hold anything against her.
I dont think she's coming back... But it would take a sincere apology plus a detailed explaination of what she has done since our break up and to explain to me why she acted so weird.
1. She needs to put in more effort in the relationship2. Be able to talk things out3. Not be afraid of her opinion4. The only thing that matters is her happiness. I am here to support her every way possible
She would have to say "I was actually joking," about all the people she had sex with.
I wouldn't take her back. She's gone to the "dark side" and I no longer have any respect for her intelligence.
If he told me he'd actually treat me right this time and DID it. But that's in a perfect world and I'm spiteful I might still be very rude to him.
A male chastity belt, access to his cell 24x7x365, and a shock collar if I catch him even looking at another womanHe cheated with two women on New Year's Eve 2018 and lied about itI heard it ALL coz he didn't hang up his ph
...( Stares at you with this serious but yet sorrow face) that's rough..
His funeral... lol jk, no seriously he would have to convince me so much he's changed and apologize to me.
The second coming of Jesus Christ himself, telling me to my face that the entire planet would end if I didn't take him back, and even then... y'all might be in trouble.
Well there are some that are easy cause they never did nothing wrong and others that just need to give you a bit more of their world.
If he admitted to actually cheating on me when I know damn well that he did, I found her clothes in my bed room and a used condom.
Ummm I think he needs a heavy physcological treatment
Nothing. Exes are called ex for a reason. They're meant to be crossed out from your life.
There is nothing that would make me get back with my ex
If she is a completely different person With a different face.
It would take for her to have changed what she wants out of life. Apart from that, nothing else.
Nothing. I dumped him for a reason and that reason can never be removed
Nothing. It's done. I 2ouldnt want him back. Besides I'm very happy with my current boyfriend
I just realized I can't.. No matter whatever they do.. Just never
I’d only take an ex back if they didn’t cheat, and if they didn’t then there’s not much for them to do besides having consistency of good behaviors like attentiveness and communication.
Nothing. Not even God can make me be with Satan again
Sex. My ex is an asshole but he's really good in bed and super hung.
All my exes acted like jerks when it wad over.. we never kept in contact so none!
I wouldn’t. She’s done things that are unforgivable.
If she would drop her "free" drug supply from her greasy little Indian friend I might reconsider
Probably treat me like a queen and kneel to his knees. If it is just a casual let’s hang out then no. I might get back together just to dump him lol. Karma
A memory wipe. But I bet she'd create pretty similiar ones and become my ex once more.
All my exes Are happily married. I'm Good luck Chuck baby!
Not a damn thing. Even ones that I am on great terms with, no.
A billion euros a year and him accepting that it will be long distance
If he had the biggest dick
@Devon69 he was a big dick.
Lol how big
He didn't reply I think it way too short
I would never take any of my exes back. Prefer to die alone rather than take them back😂
if I took him back he would have to pay me to take him back. If your going to use me as a rebound I might as well get money out of it. feelings dont pay my bills and im done putting my heart on the line.
I wouldn't take him back ever he wasn't there for me when I needed him the most
It's so easy to get me backXD So it's more like what would it take for the guy who doesn't want me anymore to accept my needs for his dick loll
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