I have a lot of friends and my ex’s did too. No problems with that. Never would I attempt to isolate a girl. That’s too much pressure on me if I’m the only one in her life. The only time I’ve stepped in is when my ex wanted to hang out with someone she had sex with once. I have boundaries, and I’m upfront about them. What radical views to you think I possess? Or I’ve displayed i’ve possessed? I think I’m a pretty rational person.
Guys and girls rarely have platonic relationship. Usually there’s feelings on one side at one point or another. If I’m in a relationship, then another guy doesn’t really have any business texting my girl throughout the day and hanging out with her one on one. It’s never been a problem for me, as a girl hasn’t really ever put me in this situation. Coworkers and friends within a group settings are fine, but I really don’t think it’s that appropriate for a someone in a relationship to hang out one on one with a member of the opposite sex. I think that’s a pretty rational boundary to have as I know my friends share in my life also share the same views.
“You’ve overreacted several times when a “girlfriend/date” hung out with a guy friend or brought them to hang out to one of your dates.”I made one question about this, and the girl had sex with this guy previously and was still a big part of her life. I bought the guy lunch along with her and was very nice. After, I let her know that I don’t want to be apart of this love triangle and I’m not going to ask her to drop her friend. I respectfully did this. We went about our separate ways, I don’t understand how that’s ocerreactive or irrational in anyway.
Well, she literally brought him to a date IN FRONT of you. How exactly is she supposed to cheat infront of you? And your views are pretty old fashioned and extreme either way. In general, I have no doubt you’d be a jealous type of guy. I can imagine your girl comes home late from work and you accusing her of cheating. Work on your own insecurities. No ones gonna cater to your weird views. The whole reason you’re asking this question is because girls continuously accuse you of being jealous - which leads me to believe you are. You do seem to be a psychopathic jealous maniac.
Just because I don’t want to enter a relationship with a girl who’s keeping old fuck buddies around, doesn’t mean I’m just an insecure person. I’m not that progressive enough to say it’s okay to hang out with people you’ve had sex with if you’re in a relationship with me. I think most rational people would agree that this is a more than reasonable boundary. I respectfully left the situation as I think most would. I’ve been cheated on before, but that was a while back and have since been in a relationship and I never accused or thought she was cheating. So I have insecurities just like everyone else, but I never let them affect anyone else. I don’t ever want a girl to be isolated because that’s too much pressure on me. Never attempted to do that with anyone. I think a healthy relationship stems from being well rounded and well versed. Need to have friends and a life outside of me. You can call me old school, but if you’re calling my a psychopath because I don’t want to enter a relationship in which a girl is still talking to an old fuck buddy and is best friends with him— then you kind of have a warped perception of reality. I’m almost positive that anyone reading this would agree. Also— why are you anonymous. It’s funny how whenever someone throws bombs at someone on here, they’re utilizing there anonymous feature as a safety net lol. Like this is an online public forum, what’s going to happen if you don’t use anonymous? Absolutely nothing. If you’re going to make such a bold claim, then give me some evidence that backs it up. Me rejecting a relationship with a girl who wants to still keep her fuck buddy around isn’t really a justified reason to call me controlling or psychopathic aha
Actually all I see is people in the comments agreeing you’re jealous so I doubt it mr-types-an-essay-explaining-why-he’s-not-jealous 👋
See. I’m not going to play your game. You call me out, and if I don’t respond, then you believe you’re correct. If I articulate my side, then I’m being overtly sensitive so I must be covering something up. Usually this card gets played when the other person has no other legitimate responses.It has taken me no longer than 30 seconds out of my day to type out each of these replies. Hardly an effort. If you call me out on some shit, then I’m going to correct you. You’re anon using this as a safety net. Again, you’re too afraid to show your true colors on an online forum in which you can freely speak your mind without any social repercussions... yet you choose to hide behind anon lol. If you can’t call me out using anon as a safety net here... then you’re probably the same type of person to look at your feet while talking to me. So why exactly are you anon? Come at me with some legitimate proof that I’m a jealous psychopath and we’ll talk. Until then, where is this going?
by the way... you’re literally the first person on here stating that I’m the jealous type.
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions