It's probably because I don't know how to talk to people with small talk.
Or the fact that I lose too much energy around people I don't know
Whats small talk to you? What would you like to talk about instead? And hmm is it due to stress?
I like to talk about the meaningful things, right to the point. But I don't know if they would be interested.
Which leads to me not talking at all
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I do think it helps though to see the prospect of turning strangers into acquaintances, and acquaintances into friends, as not so different from turning any one of these into a date and potential girlfriend. There are similar types of initiative required as well as trust and communication and taking time out to spend with each other.Often I think people who struggle with this see it as totally separate things, and I don't think that's so helpful. Because take someone who has quite a bit of room for improvement to their social skills, their ability to open up to others, etc. It's going to significantly delay their ability to improve those social skills if they just hone in on select members of the opposite sex, but they need to improve it to improve their chances with the opposite sex.If instead, they practice their ability to socialize with everyone around them, then they stand to improve those skills much more rapidly as well as finding potential dates along the way. So I think it's helpful not to see these as separate things, especially for those reluctant to socialize.
As an introvert guy, it is not as easy
Yeah, men don't get responses on dating apps. I've been on Bumble for two years, and I've got four matches... Still waiting on a response. One time I got a message, but it was literally just to poke fun at my height.
I'va been on Tinder for quite some time, as i do had a lot of "match", 99% of these were girls expecting me to do all the work, yeah well it gets boringBut i did met some nice girls wanting to chat for real, having conversations, sometimes a date, but i'm an introvert and a shy person so never had more than just a date.