Women always decline a second date with me. The excuses vary but its usually that they want an active "manly" man who is outgoing with leadership skills. Because I work out a lot and dress nice I think some women might assume I'm like that, but my personality is more the quiet and laid back. I am not willing to be outgoing and approach women first.
Usually date via eharmony, and I have pretty high standards.
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Well, you gotta do a mirror analysis of yourself and try to understand something:
YOUR TACTICS AREN'T WORKING. They just aren't.
Leadership skills? Yeah, have them. Call the shots - take a girl out for drinks/happy hour/dinner/play, whatever. Have control of the date and end it when you want to.
Don't be positive 100% of the time. Switch between positive/neutral/negative emotions because girls find it interesting when an attitude shifts different ways. If I was on a date with a girl who was happy and jittery all the time, I'd grow disinterested at some point.
A quiet and laid back attitude can work to your advantage. Girls like a mysterious guy who asks her questions and sh*t. A girl will wonder if you really do like her or not.
Marriage = throw that sh*t in the can. You're not the one to pursue marriage. That's a girl's job to want it. You, on the other hand, want to get sex.
You need to erect more masculinity with bad boy behaviors. Any signs of feminine crap, like emotions or 'nice guy' attitude = forget it. Girls should treat you nice, like a champion.0
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