Okay... so my boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. When we first started talking he told me about an incident that had happened with his ex. It was a horrible incident, I understand that... but it was over a year ago and he still feels pain from it. I told him from the start that I'd be there for him. Yesterday he found two pictures of her that he forgot to delete, and he was depressed. I hate being selfish and don't want to tell him that I can't stand hearing her name... everytime he brings her name up I feel like someone stabbed me while looking me dead in the eye. Is this normal? What can I do to better help him, and myself.