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Hell no. I’m not a family guy, so if any date talks nonstop about family I bail. (But I still pay for the meal)
Not on a first date - it would happen maybe after 7 or 8 dates.
If the topic comes up? Yeah, though I usually do not go into too much detail about my family on the first few dates: just the basics. Now if I talk to him more or I think he's going to meet my folks? Yeah, I might tell him more details about my family.
I might... it depends if our family has something to do with something they’re talking about or asking about. It might come up - it probably will... but not always. I’ve had early dates where I’ve mentioned family... and first dates where I haven’t.
I avoid talking about family in detail. Don't want the date to get any ideas. Want them to like me for who I am, and not who my family is. When I'm sure they like me for what I am, then Introduced them to my family first by telling who they are and what they do. Let that sink in. When the date is ready we go and meet them. But that's months Into dating.
Not talking about them but maybe talking about them in a way that directly connects to me, like if I was saying I work out a lot because my dad will spends lots of time with me at the gym. I will awnser questions about them or bring something up if it fits very well with the conversation, "you are in APlang?, my mom teaches that!"
Its something I don't believe I have done.. However what a great topic to discuss to gain some understanding about another person. If you have children then it is an important thing to get out in the open soon as possible
I hope they do not ask me about my family, I am tired of lying to people. I have the most toxic family I ever known and I always lie to people at work how perfect we are :(
yeah id say its important cause it shows the women you love your family and also that your not self-centered
Talking bout the hubby seems to cause some issues 🙄
Not really, but there's no problem if they are both comfortable with that topic.
Update: not on the first date though.
Yeah, family is fair game to chat about. Don't dwell on it though.
If the conversation lead us there, I will definitely talk about it
Can you please adopt me as your son
I’m not sure what I’d bring up, but I’d be fine with anything casual.
Probably a little, but I’ve never had a first date so... *Slowly steps into next room*
No, I do sometimes through texting with girls. That is normal yea?
There is no criteria for what you talk in dating you can talk anything by considering how person is comfortable with your talk
Rarely, I stick to traveling, TV series, hobbies, and other light subjects
When I was dating, the conversation just went wherever we let it go. I could include family.
Yeah, I mean my family's a fairly important part of my life, so they're going to end up coming up
only if they ask me about my family
I dont see a problem. the 1st couple dates is about getting know that person
If the topic comes up then sure, everyone's got some funny family stories.
No! That's third date stuff.
Yeah. Sometimes I do.
No just your interest between you too first
Not unless I dont want a second date.
Amen you win a chicken dinner
Never. Big no no.
If it happens.
only if it comes up
O don't know
Hmm I say i would
Hmm yea I wouldn't go in to much details tho
Yea dats normal..
No I don't
If it comes up
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