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No one is a science experiment unless you are kidnapped for that purpose, thats a little harsh ripper, the word 'test' in this conversation is implying what sort of things do you do or say on a date that would give you signs that the person would fit in with your life. I was looking for examples.
It's only harsh if you take it literally. Either way, the answer is the same. I'll either connect with her or I won't. I don't do anything to see if they would fit in my life.
Im sure you ask questions to get to know a person especially if you want to spend more time with them?
That is 'getting to know'.And it is very important to all.Test is something different.
What is your interpretation of test? Dont you find out if your date will be compatible with you first or do you just go on a second date regardless even if she may be your stalker or a psycho before you do some random tests?
How is it different?
I dont go on such dates.So such problems never came by.I become friends, we build friendship, we then get to know each other as we spend more time,It is then when we slowly realise how things are between us.We can always balance or adjust. I see no test requirement here.I dont have to put them into a situation and see how they will react to it and note my observations and make my life based on that.Things are complicated already. These tests will only make it worse.There is this popular phrase :"Love humans, dont use them,Use things, dont love them."If people would ever understand how deep meaning these words hold.
I guess at your age you are out of sync, good to see you can learn from us younger ones here!
Mmm.. I don't know about that according to the other men on this post it seems my statement was correct.
I think the question is misunderstood by the younger generation... however at your age, lm sure you never did these things when you were a young lad... thats why you never heard of such... no need to worry on your end pops ... 😉
Ah , mmmm , didn't l read some where you dont date girls?
How do you do this?
How dont we