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When she was 14 & I was 17. She had to sit on my lap in my dad's car on a big family trip to the lakehouse which is a 5 hour journey. Anyway she clearly could feel me and wriggled around and rocked back and fourth the whole time. That night our parents went out to a party another family was having leaving us to babysit the younger kids. When the kids were asleep in bed I creeper into my parents empty bedroom to jerk off and my cousin knowing this came in and asked what I was doing and that she knew that I was into her because of the car. She took her top off and I came hard at the sight of her of course she giggled at that. We made out for a while and I got hard quickly again and she gave me a blow job. We lost our virginities to each other the following night while our parents were out partying and we were inseparable that summer often going into the forest where no one would see us together. We were secretly a couple for years and she didn't even date in highschool while I was in college. Our families eventually found out and split us up, we used to meet in secret after that out of state, at family events out two immediate families are always sure we are never alone together. We have both moved on and hardly speak to each other anymore. I'm married with kids as is she, though I suspect at least two of her kids are mine though I'm afraid to ask.
😐 Very mature choice
So, you are basically going to keep dating this guy for yet another 7 years and then when you are too old to find somebody decent that wants to live with you because he loves you, he will drop you because he will indefinitely reject the idea of you meeting his parents.On the other hand, what kind of parents are those that are not interested in knowing who their son is seeing for such a long time. That does not give me a positive feeling about the entire family.As a parent, I am interested in knowing the person that means something to my son and I would make sure that I know that person. It is basic courtesy and a minimum of decency to want to meet your (perhaps) future daughter in law.I would sever this relation while you are still young and have the chance to find a decent person that does not need to hide you like a disease.
Maybe he's not a big fan of his parents or something..
do you think seven years on he might not have explained that if it was the case? i mean i avoid my parents but i make that clear after a few dates if not sooner
yeah possibly or maybe he's not speaking to them
indeed but why would he not tell his girlfriend that... thats my point. it makes no sense.
ehh it is what it is..
Been dating for 7 years seems like a waste of time
It's starting to feel that's way..
Are you complaining? Talk to him and ask him why?
7 years? really that long?
seven weeks i may have had a sensible answer but there is so much wrong at seven years i just dont know where to start
the problem here is that at seven years and you being so young still its clear you have known nothing else so dont have a reference for comparison but this isn't normal at all and i wonder if he treats you like a second class citizen in other ways too... maybe even if you dont break it off completely it wouldn't hurt to have some time apart so you can reevaluate what it is you really want
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