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Yep! If he won’t tell me about his past then I’ll dump him
you have the right to choose your partner according to your liking. you don't have any right for them to behave as you want them to.
I know that’s why I said I would dump him
well if you know, then why do you ask? ^^
Because I want to know other people’s opinions if they also want to know about their partner’s past or not.
yeah i feel like many girls are entiteled for their partner to change for them instead of just going for someone who is as they want to begin with
Okay so I take it that you don’t care about knowing your partner’s past?
it's not that i don't care but i respect it when they feel like it wouldn't benefit our relationship if i knew. and as long as she's not witholding any sexual diseases she has, i'm fine with that.
Cool! I’ll dump him
That's entirely your prerogative.On a side note if asked, would you be fully prepared to tell all about your past, honestly?
Yes I would. Because I have lived a good and honest life
Cool! Then I’ll dump him
Now that is your right 😁
To see what other people think?
Apologies, I went down a train of thought based around if you're completely unwilling to ever change your position based off a gauge of opinions, why bother gauging them? I've since changed my perspective on this after doing a couple thought experiments. Sorry again for potentially sounding condescending.
No worries but you haven’t answered. So I take it that you don’t care about knowing about your partner’s past?
Oh, sorry. I answered in the vote and forgot to tag it here too. Yeah, I believe you don't have a right to know your partner's past. It'd be really nice if they could share a lot of the time, but they still have a right not to share and to continue the relationship.
Then it’s my right to not date him if he won’t share his past.
Oh okay then I have the right to not date them
Why do you say that?
Because the word "right" implies that you one is entitled to that information, when they aren't.
Why not? Isn’t one entitled to know about person’s character before entering a relationship?
Yes, but that isn't the same thing as knowing the specifics of it. Ones past also doesn't equate to their current character.
It actually does. We are all a result of our past actions.
I disagree strongly. People can clearly change from being terrible people into great people.
I disagree with you strongly. Most often they don’t change.
Fair enough. We will have to agree to disagree then. :)
Why is that?
Because a lot of people have regrets and want to move on
That’s true. But I believe in being in honest.
Sometimes the truth hurts and people can't handle the truth. People change their ways.
But they should make that decision for themselves. Like if I find out my partner cheated previously then I have a choice to make. Stay or leave and I would dump him.
But what if he learnt from that mistake and never does it again. People aren't perfect. We all make mistakes and learn from them as we grow
Good. He can find some other girl. Other girls will be willing to give him a second chance.
Well I can tell you that now guy will admit he cheated on his ex girlfriend to his new girlfriend
Shows that he’s a liar and that’s terrible thing to do
Well, nobody is perfect.
But I’m honest. If I cheated then I will admit that I did