We only had our first proper kiss on the last date. I won’t be having sex with him any time soon
So then no, he’s just cooking dinner to build romance and have more one on one time with you. You could offer a bottle of wine
Yeah I did think of that... I’m a bit scared he might want to fast track though...
Why be scared? All you have to say is no, and let him know you want it to be a special time when you feel safe
Because my mama made me 😂thanks for your advice - much appreciated
Ha ha, good for your mom, she did her job well
So I just got back from the date. He made a massive effort with laying the table and making a home cooked meal and it was really sweet. We sat on the couch talking and then he went in for the kiss. Before it got too steamy I pulled away and told him I liked him but wasn’t ready for that yet and wanted to wait until I knew him better. I also told him I wasn’t dating anyone else. He said he liked me and it was fine and that he wasn’t dating anyone else either. I guess I’ll just have to wait and see! Wanted to let you know 😂
Good job knowing your boundaries and clearly communicating them. Happy to hear he is giving effort to pursue you. I am guessing he will make date # 5 special as well. Enjoy this courting phase, sounds sweet and romantic to me
Ahh thank you. I’m proud of myself for saying what needed to be said. I actually suggested our next date because he told me he was interested in this place and I’ve been a lot. Wanted to actually do something together.
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I want to know him better before that
Yeah I guess