well define needy?
Making me responsible for his emotional well being.
yea but technically isn't that what women and girls seek from guys and men?
Hell no. It shouldn’t be, historically men were to provide income and food while women provided emotional support and nurturing.
I'm talking about the other side of the spectrum, why do girls and women complain or nag it goes both ways. If women find needy guys annoying, how come a guy can't turn around and say "look if you keep nagging me its over"
Oh course he can🤷♀️. Why doesn’t he? Is it because he needs her too much?
I think society deems women nagging to be okay, it's not. I find it annoying, I couldn't stay with a girl who nags. If she's nagging because the guy is not cleaning up, or working or doing something with his life then sure she has a right to. But if he's busting his ass and she wants to knit pick shit then she's got issues and just wants to complain and there are plenty of women or girls who love to complain and stir shit up. I mean that's dumb, a girl is just raising her blood pressure by doing that. As for the needy guy stuff, this is how I look at it. I want to take care of a girl when she wants it, but I want her to have her own life as well (working, going out with friends), I want the relationship to be caring, loving and healthy.
Yup. Nagging is gross
My husband nags a lot 🙄
Plus he’s needy AF
I try to be real and honest with women, I don't want to be an a-hole but I will let my intentions known what I want. I'm not some male chauvinist pig with "make me a sandwich and suck my ____" or calling her all the time or texting her all the time... I want a good balance and have a civil, mature relationship.
what does he do thats needy
It’s complicated, he literally needs me. Brain injury
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