Is church actually a good place to meet a partner?

[MissDawn7961]

a church goer may think it is but then after they try , then it does not work out so they go on with their life ! I mean how would it look to go to church and pay more attention to the person you are interested in then the sermon being preached? I have attended church all of my life and though it seems like it would be a good place to meet your future miss or mister right and some people have met their spouse there ! however it is not a good idea for church is to worship God at and not a dating place ! Case in point ! my young friend Ariel C. went to my church ! her dad wanted to be an elder in this church ! the church leaders found out her dad Craig did something wrong with her mom Kellie so they told Craig he could not have that position in the church ! however his wife Kellie got the preachers son Joshua to date her daughter Ariel ! Joshua and Ariel loved each other as brother and sister in Christ but they were talked into getting married and they did but they are not happy about it either ! they will stay together because they do care for each other

[aWes0MeNeSs]

It depends on the church and how many people in your age range attend. Does yours have a sort of young adult youth group? That might be a place to start.

However, it would be a great place to meet someone with similar values to yours.

[N192K001]

Churches/Congregations have 1 primary purpose: for worshiping.

Do that. If you get anything extra, consider that as it is, an extra. And if you don't, big deal: You still accomplished your mission, regardless.

Also, it's a matter of demographics. If you wouldn't go to church yourself, aren't religious, and/or are not open to living that sort of life, don't bother going. You'll not only cause unwanted burdens & conflicts for her, for her family, her congregation-mates, and yourself with all the inevitable clashes of standards, expectations, senses of decency, etc.

[scholastic_vibez]

My girlfriend is a nice church-going girl, but being a mainline Protestant, she breaks a lot of the rules. She would not break those rules for just anyone. But, you know if they break certain rules for you, it’s a matter of trust, and hard won loyalty. Our love life is great, but it’s often followed up by a lot of guilt trips about how much I make her feel like a dirty sinner. Does she give me a bad time about missing church services to sleep in, and have mimosas, and Sunday brunch or just let it slide. But, I think those arguments are worth it in the long run.

[_SOARER_]

Depends. It's definitely a good place to meet a woman to marry
Assuming she is faithful. But it's not a place where you can casually enter and begin meeting and dating girls.

They are normally more prude and vigilant. Also you should go to church to worship God not chase tail

[MustachePenguin]

I've never found love in a church, but you don't meet many birds there. I've always been my most luckiest exploring Arctic penguin colonies.

[GuildLegend435]

you can find peaches and lemons anywhere.

it's just, certain locations tend to attract a certain type of person. up to you to decide if that type of person is what you're looking for.

[BCA6010]

Church groups and activities outside of regular services probably.

[Cherokeehp]

If you’re religious, then it’s a perfect place. If you’re not, then I don’t even know why you’d be in a church at all.

[Legendhardon]

Unless you want to die of boredom😂 but there are pretty girl at church too

[Massageman]

If you are looking for a mate with the same spiritual beliefs, certainly. I've met several gals at church, whom- if I wasn't married- I'd certainly offer to share a pizza for starters.

[edjee4]

If church is pretty important to you then yes, I would imagine it would be

[JimboGB]

It is a good place to meet but you are mostly liking gonna have the families peeping eyes on you the whole time. Makes it a little difficult to be spontaneous.

[Anonymous]

When the source of water has been poisoned... it doesn't matter where you drink it from.

[NickiB]

It depends on the individual and what you are looking for.

[Clarke498]

Well, you start of with someone of the same faith. That's a good start...

[redted]

Yes if they want a church goer as their partner in life

[DWornock]

Yes a church can be since many churches has single classes.

[tdw76]

If you wanted to meet a like-minded person it is better than a bar/one night stand.

[KolaJoe]

If one of you is religious and the other one is not things will not end well.

[bamesjond0069]

If you want a good girl to get married to then its a good place.

[Liam_Hayden]

If you are looking to get married quickly, yes.

[Daniel3035]

No christian girls are crazy lmao

[BeHappy1985]

Only if you want a sheep.