I met this guy a month ago at work. He and I have literally everything in common (hobbies, music taste, political views, similar families etc.). We can talk for hours, and we do... on messenger into the very late night hours (2am). It sounds horrible. We say we’re just friends (he’ll say things like “I’m glad I have a friend like you” etc., but I feel like he’s my soulmate. Am I being ridiculous? He lives with his girlfriend of 6 years and is planning to propose to her and I’m getting married next year. I’m crazy, right? Someone tell me I’m insane and a crappy person for feeling this way about someone I just met. I haven’t physically cheated and don’t plan on it, by the way.