OK so this may sound weird but maybe just in wording. I want some outside honest opinions though, k?
I;m a seventeen year-old African American girl, who since around age 4 has lived in a not even predominantly, but like ALL (albeit the few here and there) white area. Growing up all my neighbors girlfriends and guy friends were either white or mixed, Asian Hispanic whatever just not black, and I was never exposed to a typically black area or lifestyle, meaning I don't walk talk dress act ghetto.
Fast forward to 8th grade & beyond...
My first kiss was with a french boy on vacation with friends the summer before highschool. My dates to dances were white boys, the boys I kissed at parties and concerts were white. I've never had a boyfriend but the boys I would be "seeing" were white. Now before you get a skewed picture of me, know that I find many african american guys and guys of other races hot, but I've never had the chance with one. Like I mean to the point where my friends make jokes of how I've gotten with more white guys than them and they are white.
I don't try to only get with them only on purpose, it just seems most african american guys (and take this with some salt) are "culturally" and "vocally" black and don't connect with me because I don't act or talk like that, so they relate to another black girl who does. This is where I need opinions...is this true? is it wrong that I haven't? and should I try to get with some black guys, or just not change anything? But then I run the risk of looking like its intentional and I have a preference, but I don't men are men hot is hot?
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i don't think its weird at all, you are who you are. don't change who you are just to portray some kind of black stereo type, that a lot of african americans try and portray that gangster, rap role. its bs it really is.
its a disgrace to african americans really. makes people think that all blacks are gang banger, street gang type people, when really this isn't true at all. iam sure if you tried hard enough, there are black males out there that would relate to you if you really wanted to date a black guy0