I'm not dating her just because she's hot, but it's hard to ignore that she's hot.
Then your with her for wrong reasons. If she wasn't hot to you, would you still be with her? Think about that because that's how you end up hurting a person.
If you can't love a person whether or not they're attracted to you and then you're in the wrong relationship. You should be attracted to a person's heart and spirit first, because if you use the body first and then there Spirit then you're going to eventually grow to resent them once they lose their attractiveness.
Uhhh, I said I wasn't dating her just because she was hot
You said that you're not dating her just because she's hot, but it's hard for you to ignore that she is. That's why I said you're dating her for the wrong reasons.
Yeah, I can't ignore that she's attractive, she would probably hate me if I did.
You should be able to love hard regardless if she was hot to you or not. Otherwise you are with her because she's hot and it's best to just be honest to yourself about it. Because if she's already insecure and she doesn't trust as you or don't trust men as much, she's going to question you and then you're going to feel very bad about it if she got forbid leaves you for it. For those who like that often times have an ego and they know who they can pick if you don't treat them right. So I'm telling you to be very careful for why you choose to date a person and why you choose to go after them. Remember that we have choices and more options than you do. Plenty of other people say tell her that because why, it feeds the ego. Unless it her love language we don't need for you to tell us that.
Of she hates the fact that you may not then your with the wrong person. Because the person should love you for you. We all have a changes physically and it's part of life.
I'm still confused as to what you're going on about, I don't understand
And yes you can with practice. Of your hearts in the right place then physical appearance wouldn't really cross your mind. It's the heart that counts.I'm telling you to not based your relationship on physical attraction. Your still trying to know who your dating especially of she wants a friend prior to dating. Again, women who likes all that attention have huge egos. And you do not want to be with a person who you may not be compatible with or just say it just to get a reaction out of her to enjoy that attention.
I don't mind a woman with a huge ego personally
You are dating her. You are not dating us. It was best not to ask other people how the other person would want to be treated. Because at the end of the day we don't know who she is, we don't know what she's like. It's never wise to make assumptions. When you have personal questions like that you go ask that person. Never a stranger or other people who you're not dating.
If you don't mind a woman with a huge ego then be prepare for her to leave you because of her ego. They cheat often because they know their charm attracts a lot of men.
I still don't know what I did wrong to you, I can't and won't ignore how attractive she is, that's that.
You didn't do anything wrong to me. I'm simply telling you that you can do whatever you want. But she's the one who gets to decide how she feels about it. Thats all.
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