Boyfriend wants me to live with him but I want to live with my parents, what should I do?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I think you should do whatever your heart tells you
if i had a girlfriend , i wouldn't want her to move in with
me if she didn't have it in her Heart, I want her to be
Happy where ever she wishes to live. I feel your boyfriend
should allow you to live where ever you want too.

[23anonuser]

How long have you been dating? Why does he want you to move in with him? Will you be expected to help pay the rent and bills?

I don't think he should be pressuring you to do anything you do not want to do. Also, if you are moving straight from parents to boyfriend, you will never have the opportunity to live by yourself.

You learn a lot about yourself and what you are capable of when you are completely on your own.

Living together is a big step and once you move-in together it will be very difficult to leave if you begin to have second thoughts.

[juicyjessie]

A sad scenario. Live with parents. Parents pass away first. Person left on their own. boyfriend has already found someone else.

Don't go down this road.

I got the best of, not both, but 3 worlds. I have spent 3 years at uni, living with my boyfriend. Some weekends we have at his family home. Others we have at mine. Same with holidays. Some there, some here. Keeps up all happy!

[askuser]

I was in this same situation. I live with my parents, and have a job that I like. He lived 3 hours away, but wanted me to move in with him. I told him not until he proposes. So eventually he dumped me, and all I can think is that it is a good thing I didn't move in with him. Then, where would I be?

[goodlongman]

You are 29 you should have been on your own and taking responsibility for your own life long ago. Find a girlfriend and share a place and start to grow up. Then after a year you can marry and be a wife

[Dave-from-Illinois]

Follow what your heart says. If your heart says no then moving in with him will probably make you regret it even months later. When your heart says yes then move in with him. You want to make sure he is the one anyways.

[EmmaMary]

May I ask why you still wish to live with your parents when you're almost thirty years of age?

[simonqq]

You have a boyfriend now? Interesting. I'd say you could tell him that you are not ready yet. That you need more time.

[COMMODOREII]

Be honest with him and tell him that you will with your parents. I don't see why he is being difficult like that.

[AynonOMouse]

Isn't the point of having an SO to eventually end up living together?

[fashionguy17]

Stay with your parents. Save up. Pay off all your debts. Move out when you are ready.

[Pipeliner87]

You are 29 girl...

Living with mom and dad is not cool. Live with the boy friend.

[October808]

Live with your praents. It's what you want, not what he wants.

[User_Friendly]

Its funner living with gf!

[GreenGold1992]

do want you want to do

[bklynbadboy1]

Simple tell him how you really feel

[ThorJunior19287]

Stay with your parents until you are ready.

[reptocarl]

Tell him no

[MannMitAntworten]

Live by yourself...

[Laurahzl]

Reject him nicel