Why do people like short girls?

[btbc92]

As a 5'3 woman? Power and energy dynamic that is different from them. Like opposite's attract kind of thing. I agree about not dating somebody that tall due to our height. I sadly just think so many people have these social pressures that you HAVE to do this and you HAVE to do that, just BECAUSE. A lot of these people who have these 'preferences' often don't think about the human behind the flesh[ your body]. I tell people all the time, you can be physically attractive all you want, but the intent and the energy you give off and make or break a possible relationship with people. However, do not wish you were those heights because 5'2 is not a bad height. My grandmother is around that height and still, have similar problems. If you don't love yourself at your height now, you'll never love yourself no matter what height you are at. And everybody has their own problems. That's what I realized.

For example. My father is the same height as me and always got told he will never get anybody because he was too short. Well, guess what. As much as I do not agree with his choices, he has had over 40+ women, practically over 10 girlfriends, and was married to my mother who then had me. My mom was almost 6'feet but had been made fun off too for being too tall or one of the tall side for the women in her side of the family. She dated about 4 people and married my father. And so many people made fun of her and asked my dad, 'why are you with a woman like that?' Or they would make fun of my parents as the odd couple. So I can agree about feeling like a child to them. I think that a lot of people want to throw the word insecurity out there because they upset its more of a logical answer than they would admit or accept. It's not insecurity. It's energy.

[FakeName123]

1. For the same reason as women are attracted to taller men. Humans are one of the species with the most distinct sexual dimorphism among them. Aka men and women are VERY different actually. And as a result what they are attracted to is very different.
A common mistake many people of both genders do is assuming what they are attracted to functions vice versa. That's why guys send dickpics as guys are more visual. And that's why girls think they need to be financially successful to attract guys.

2. Shorter height generally accentuates a girls natural curves - especially around the hip area - as well as activates a guys protective instincts.

3. As especially the research of Ogi Ogas has showcased - one of the main contributors of sexual attraction is power dynamic. Needless to say that there is a power dynamic when a guy is like twice the size of a girl.

P. S. I've dated 5'1 and stools and stairs are your friends ;)

[God_of_Thunder]

It's kind of hard to explain, actually.

I mean, why are people specifically attracted to blondes, or brunettes? Why are people specifically attracted to Asians, Hispanics, or skinny/curvy? We can't generally control who we're attracted to; it's just natural, really.

I suppose the case could be made that short women are "cute" which is an attractive quality. At least that's the way I look at it, personally. Other guys might be attracted to short women because of a natural instinct towards protectiveness, I guess? I tend to fall more into the former category, than the latter, so I can't say for certain.

Mostly I think it's as I said, though: it's just natural, without any real concious thought, on our part.

[Aethereal]

I don't care about height. It has almost no bearing on attractiveness to me. However I think that I, and many guys generally gravitate towards short/shorter girls because girls in general make a unbelievably huge deal about height in partners. I'm 175cm (about 5'9") but would automatically assume (and I hate this about myself) that a girl closer to my height (5'7'' for example) will refuse to date me exclusively because I'm not much taller than her.

[bamesjond0069]

Im only 5'10" so i could easily date taller girls like 5'7" but i do not find them attractive at all. Shorter the better. All my exs are mainly 5'0" is the most common height 5'2" the tallest and 4'10" the shortest. I love picking my girl up and carrying her at concerts or up to bed. I like being able to easily physically restrain her for sex. I also like being able to do sex moves where i need to hold her up. Short girls are also cuter and i love cute girls.

[Anonymous]

Its just what they like, what's not to get?
I think the mistake is finding it weird in the first place.
Things like "feeling like a child next to them" that's *your* insecurity, but that's just normal for them. There is no "why", is just is that way.

[Thatsamazing]

Because males are supposed to be strong and dominant, per evolutionary biology, and females are supposed to be weaker and in need of protection, per evolutionary biology. Humans are animals. Sexuality is animalistic.

[MackToday]

Makes them feel tall and strong probably. All men want to be big and strong, brave, it's only natural but if they're insecure they might want a short girl to boost their ego, look like a giant.

[Avicenna]

I have a strong preference for tall women, so I won't speculate why guys might like shorter ones. I guess everyone has their own idea of what's most desirable.

[TylerR]

Tall guys like shorter girls because it feels like they're more dominant and can be the protector in the relationship.

[ArnoldClark]

Love short women. They look more in proportion and all the best bits are closer together.

[TravisMartin]

I dated short girls nothing wrong with that she was 4 Foot 10 I’m 5 foot 11 it’s a bit weird walking down the street but sex or kissing just fine

[itsmatty]

i like tall girls but height isn't usually a factor when i'm deciding to date someone.

[Anonymous]

Don't get it either, I like prefer girls around my height.

[Anonymous]

My friend was engaged to a girl who was 4'10". She broke it off

[October808]

Tall guys, short girls, tighter sex maybe.

[killany1212]

Makes a man feel more man

[cowboy_13]

It don’t really bug me

[NickiB]

Because we're awesome

[vald9inches]

As a 6’5” guy i do love short girls lol 😂

[GreenGold1992]

we just do

[fett253]

Size difference can be a turn on.