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Distant is it bad or good?

So me and my boyfriend had a conversation the other night, he says i think to much and it can be tough. (also that to me means to back off you're talking to much again stop talking). It is true i do think a lot, and its never "oh i think he's cheating on me", its more of me thinking about every thing, the saying goes "knowledge is power" and with my boyfriend being older than me i ask him questions to get either answers or his point of view, don't get me wrong i don't ask him all the time every day and i don't talk a lot, i never want to be one of those girlfriends that never shut the fuck up. So when we talked on the phone and in text (my texts are short and straight to the point), he says I'm being distant, i thought me not saying anything just listening to you talk was better for the both of us, and if i truly having nothing to say what do i say, now that I'm being extra quite he seems to get irritated, its like what do you want exactly, where is this happy medium?
Distant is it bad or good?
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