That little cunt whore should be behind bars, now that's some stupid I wouldn't do at all. I got too much respect for myself that's just sad.
I agree but the point is the moment you lie to someone about your age, it can often spiral into more lies and when people do find out you lose any respect you have built up from friends and family over the years, plus any one who learns of the lie will then question anything you do say after that... but yeah she should be banged up behind bars i totally agree but there's a saying i've heard since i was a kid... "start as you mean to go on" so when you couple that with the following one..."be true to yourself and true to others" you know you will always be in the right
I like that quote, its like saying be true to urself cause only you can & its powerful
I agree and it holds value to many matters too
So let me ask you something, if a guy looks back & smiles at you let's say your a girl does it mean he's making fun of you?
Would it even be a good idea to know this person further or no?
not just by looking back and smiling no, maybe he was smiling cos looking at who he's looking back at he likes... now if he was with others and laughing and looking at someone with a disgusted look and then whenever he laughs it could mean he was if he was pointing at them or indicating to them whenever he did so
so if they were doing that, then they wouldn't be worth any more energy wasted on them tbh
So meaning I had courage to give a boy a compliment & he looked back & smiled people tell me online that he was making fun of me on purpose
sometimes people say things cos they are jealous.. unless you hear it directly from that boy, take it all with a pinch of salt... cos many people will lie especially during the school years, you'll have so much rivalry as many are just starting to experience puberty so attraction and romantic jealousy will be one of the big minefields that you're going to have to navigate through... but finding out from the horses mouth can have its' advantages also, whether you know and trust the person giving you the news... if he was just smiling then that's not usually a typical body language sign he's making fun, but rather that he's smiling cos you make him smile
& well I looked back at him & smiled showing my teeth & he did too, now I'm thinking maybe he didn't wanna smile but he did it to trick me on purpose I don't know if I should think of him wrong ways
does sound like he was just smiling at you cos he wanted to, i mean someone who doesn't want to just simply won't bother and most who are making fun or dont like someone will mostly either laugh at them or won't be able to make eye contact with them
So do u think he would reject me if I told him to kiss me one time or something?
I dont think he would reject you but then you won't know unless you asked him... whats the worst that can happen though, he says no? personally i believe that the not knowing if you dont ask, can be much worse than being a chance of rejection cos the regret of "i should have done this... or that" can last with you for years
Yea but what if he says he's shy to do it, he doesn't even look shy to me at all. I just want him to try to kiss me nothing serious I would even tell him myself
appearances can be deceptive, somewhere less busy might be the best choice for that then in preparation for that possibility, otherwise just say no pressure, and leave that ball in his court
So where should I take him to talk to him & know him better?
Oh & two days later when he saw me he was standing at his front door & looked at me his face brightened up is dat bad
if his face brightened up when he saw you it reinforces what i said earlier about he was smiling at you not making fun... and that he likes you a lot... and it's more clearer now in fact i would guarantee that thoe who told you he was making fun of you... were lying and being cruel due to jealousy
I'm not sure I doubt he would wanna date me at least, I literally saw his face & eyes light up I don't know why I felt embarrassed I didn't do nothing wrong to him. & the fact that I don't see him often must be the lord saying I'm a waste
chances you got embarrassed cos your hormones and puberty has that effect on everyone around your age... and that you like him a lot more than you probably think but... if i can give you any advice is that never doubt yourself, never sell yourself short... and never assume something before it has been proven by action meaning you have as much importance and value as anyone else, and unless you know for a fact you're not able to know for sure if what you think is true or not... so unless you ask you'll never know
Your actually right & I think the same way, just like I'm bound to do great things. And I don't think I can get the right time & moment so we could talk I don't get to see him & he lives on my floor
when you both want something so much, and when 2 people are attracted to one another like that, life has a way of finding a way... whether randomly or by choice.. time though is only a construct if anyone wants something bad enough they find a way to make that time... I wouldn't be surprised to find that over the next few weeks or so... you and he, managed to sit down chat and find that you both decide that you are better off being together
I don't know, but I sure would talk to him & definitely see what he's about I'd rather get to know him better his personality etc right? Looks are a cover of a book
Funny thing, I saw someone that looked just like him I stopped him to say hi it was a different boy but I did find him kinda attractive its too bad lol
I agree looks are like the cover of a book, something i've always found to be more truer than many expect... Looks fade with time but personality can last the for a lifetime
Yes exactly people juss can't handle the truth in reality. I felt pretty bad thinking I was waving at my crush but at least the boy didn't get mad
it happens tbh, funny thing is you'll end up doing that to a lot more people who look similar... believe me when i say, I have lost count at how many people i recognised who i went up to speak to only to find out they weren't who i thought it does get embarrassing and you end up kicking yourself for it but it's funny when you look back on it
Yeah, I actually feel great cus I'm capable of talking & meeting new strangers lol. I haven't seen my crush all day
yeah i can understand that... and oh how come? he not in today?
We live on the same floor, & I should see him often but I don't so I can never have him kiss me how I want him to its frustrating
there are other places to interact, as they say "where there's a will, there's a way!"
There's no chance I get to see him maybe 20% or less chance I see him randomly not often. But when I have seen him I give him a flirty smile & if he doesn't like it not my fault
So what if I'm older then him?
You're both underage? Well, where I live (UK), while illegal I don't think that would be likely to cause much trouble, but honesty does go a long way and if you are 15 then I'm sure there can't be that much of an age gap between the two of you if he is the younger one. I would suggest just being honest about it. It'll most likely come out sooner or later anyway.
Let me ask you something, I think I should lie well cus first of all, one day I complimented him & he looked back at me smiling. Now people say he was prob making fun of me so I'm sure it wouldn't hurt him
What if I'm the older one?
Still not a good idea. I hope he's legal at the very least.
I'm sure he wouldn't mind
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what if I'm the older one?
Then lying about your age would only be downright silly and pointless.
How im like 2 years older
Exactly. You both are teenagers.
I know I'm not like other girls that do worst I'm saying what if I'm older then him?
Laws go both ways. Although lucky for you, the woman being older is usually “you go girl”. Just google “older women younger men”. Sentencing is also lighter. I really wish i could post links to sources.
Tinder my ass that's lame😂
Dude spare us. You sound fucking ridiculous. She has a question; she can ask it. Be quiet.
I wanna maybe date someone I think he's 2 years younger tho
Why lie about it? You can't change it. He would find out eventually and then feel like you weren't honest with him, and that wouldn't work out well for the situation, you know?
It prob wouldn't work out anyways :/
Why is it
what if I'm the older?