I met this guy. Super cool. We clicked right away. We've been texting casually for about 2 months now...We finally went out on our first official first date...We tried to hang out for 1 month now but either my schedule or his wouldn't allow it. The date was ideal...Fun, no dull moments, laughter the entire time, flirting, hand holding... I went home and he wnated me to hang out longer. I didn't. I hugged him good bye and he said he would love to hang out SOON? I said he was more than welcome to come and visit me...We live 1 hr away from each other...How long before my second date? I texted him saying hello and he replied I don't want to seem clingy and scare him off so should I just want to back off a bit...but how long does a girl normally have to wait in order to hear back from a guy?
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Wait for him to make the next move if you were the first to initiate contact last. I always stand by the rule too of the guy asking for the second date. Mostly because a girl will never see a guy as desperate simply for asking, but guy will sometimes see a girl as desperate for asking. (So many different preferences). Best to err on the side of caution. If he's very interested, he will ask you. Especially considering it'll be your second date and you had a great first one.0