How do you find your league?

[Morpheus0625]

This one is easy... the problem is you! Think of yourself like a mirror... we see only the image u show us! If u have low self esteem that will be reflected in ur mirror and u will attract exactly what u put out into the world. Make sense?
U think he's not serious because ur self image is cracked, perhaps shattered by someone or something in ur past has broken ur confidence... u need to find a way to get it back! Sexy is just a refection of ur confidence in urself and who you are... think about it.

[bamesjond0069]

"I recently was with a guy who was morbidly obese and had no self-confidence..." sorry but that is your league. I dont care how hot or cool a girl is, if she has a past of dating guys like that she has mental issues and im too good to date someone like that.

[AudreyB88]

Stop trying to find your 'league' and date anyone that you're interested in.
I've been rejected by unattractive men (in appearance and personality), because I thought that if I aimed low it would be easier to date (it was not). Have realistic standards, don't expect a perfect fairytale character but don't settle for anyone that doesn't respect you.

[akihon]

First off you have a very low opinion of yourself
This causes you to either accept time with people who similarly have a low opinion of themselves or for you to seek out similar types and this is causing you to go through bad experiences

Second you seem very focused on looks, in fact that's what your question was really about, that's your main problem, your very shallow you date only based in looks not who they are, this connection that many women talk about doesn't happen for you because it's about looks.
Third this sounds like a trip to a therapist is what you actually need to work through some hidden issues you have because it's my experience those who place looks above all else are never happy, they aren't because looks fade, change day to day, what matters is how you value yourself and others and if you can't do that then you aren't going to find anybody

[MusicMayhem]

Maybe they treat you like trash because they picked up on your bitterness about having to settle for ugly and morbidly obese guys. You ultimately attract what you are so fix your insecurities and you'll attract better guys. Nobody is forcing you to date these guys and honestly it sounds like they'd be better off without you so quit blaming others and take responsibility for your life.

[HomoFuge]

You end up with these shitty guys because you believe that’s what you deserve. Why do you think a good looking guy isn’t serious when he asks you out? You need to be more confident and get out of your comfort zone. Put yourself out there.

Next time a good looking guy asks you out take him up on his offer.

If you keep doubting yourself and let your insecurities rule you then you will never find the man you want.

[LoU_Hades]

No one will ask you out or even noticing your existence if you aren't attractive enough. You're acceptable or you don't exist.

I have a female friend who earned earlier money with table dancing, she gained few kg in last years, now 99% of men wouldn't even touch her with 2 m long pole. People are really so superficial

[cicchis0]

There is no such thing as leagues. People are just people and their tastes are not unique (even the most bizarre thing you can imagine somebody liking will be common enough to have been given a name). If one person likes something about you, some others will too (and some won't) regardless of their looks or social status.

[Levin]

You need to find out where your low self esteem stems from. I know how you feel tgoughm ill get women glancing at me and as an automatic response I won't consider that they find me attractive. There's a lot of negative forces out there. People seldom say anything positive or appreciate you m howeverx you have your compliments from your friends. I guess much of this must stem from childhood. What were the dynamics with your parents.

[lucas262]

There is no such thing.
Make up is a deceiver.
The wall takes no prisoners. And is undefeated.

If she's smarter than me i can read a book, if she has more money great, ill still call myself the provider but I have less risk of being divorce robbed since the richer spouse pays alimony and child support.

Really though i take all that extra stuff and out it aside to see the human being underneath and i tell you now on that field not everyone is equal but no one is better neccacsrsly.

[winterfox10]

I base my league on how members of the opposite sex treat me. I've always had better luck with hot hot hot women than with average girls. Even though I would consider myself to be an average looking guy, women seem to disagree, so I consider my league to be fairly high.

[beldath]

Sounds like you're someone who NEEDS someone to take care of. And likely because they don't treat you right, your self esteem is super low, and feel you don't deserve the better looking guy.
Sadly all types have people like that. Find someone you feel physically and emotionally attracted to. Once you figure that out, that'll be the type you need.
I know what I'm attracted to, and sadly, those girls are out of my league because my looks alone.

[Justin_Forthekill]

Fuck leagues. Fuck who you should be dating. Fuck thinking someone is 'too good' for you. If the guy is being nasty to you, drop him. If he's interested in you, chase him. Trust him until he proves he can't be trusted.

[I-C3_ME]

I think u may have low requirements for dating, that's fine but u probably get guys like this then. My advice to u is try to see the red flags before u go dating other then that u will find some good looking nice guy, just got to keep searching :). I hope u have a wonderful day tho

[Anonymous]

Leagues are definitely a real thing.
Some people are just way better looking than others or are way more intelligent than others.
It can cause an unbalanced relationship.
It just sounds like you're undervaluing yourself.

[Adrian2306]

i hate the phrase league... everyone is at you league doesn't matter how you look...

game is a game

[Phoenix98]

I don't really pay attention to them to be completely honest with you.

[rockrewls]

Any guy has the potential "be in your league" if you start thinking you are too good for some people then you become arrogant and self important, that is truly unattractive.

[Roberto1965]

self-respect is essential. once you respect yourself you start respecting the others and requiring decency in partnership.

[moststrangestguy]

No idea if i did i would probably be happy in a relationship

[Liam_Hayden]

My league is single adult biological women who are not closely related.

[The_man_whol_aughs]

Yes batman doesn't have any superpowers so I guess I do have a chance to be in the Justice League