We are always harsh on ourselves, some more than others. Somedays I look at myself and think hot but most days I think harshly about myself. I am a good person on the inside and have a lot to give. However, I constantly find myself dating nasty guys that take advantage and to make matters worse they are fugly. I constantly get told I am too good for my partners. I recently was with a guy who was morbidly obese and had no self-confidence because of the way he looked. He was so low on himself he became bitter and was nasty to me. I don't know why I keep going for these guys and it's not just who pursues me I pursue them. I can have a great good looking nice guy asking me out and I'll think he's not serious? so how do I find out who I should be dating? and the types of people I should be dating? My friends always tell me I am stunning but I always believe they are biased because they are my friends and I've said that to my friends when they feel low or are dating guys they shouldn't be.