okay, so me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for 4 years. recently we have been dating for 4 months going on 5. So there's this girl he dated for like a week in like september, and when they broke up, we started dating again. So this girl has tried to talk to him 2 or 3 times over the course of this year since, (my boyfriend has said f*** off to those times) and tonight she calls him saying she's in love with him? And that she just wants to talk and catch up... all the while he's telling me about it saying he Doesn't know what he should do, because he Doesn't want to hurt her to where she Doesn't want to date anymore. He told her he will talk to her tomorrow and whatever. I don't really think I want her talking to him if she's saying this, and it hurts my feelings that he's not being appropriate with this... little girl... what should I say, or do?
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How is he being inappropriate? He's trying to be kind to a person who's emotional state has been directly affected by him. It's not like he's going out to give her a bit of tongue, and tell her it'll be alright. He's just trying not to be a total d*** to a person who obviously thinks a lot of him. I would tell him though, if just only for the sake of communication, that it upsets to a bit. It isn't the *most* appropriate thing to do, and yes maybe he shouldn't but it's not like by doing this he's cheating on you. He just needs to maybe get his priorities straight.1