Why do guys say that they want girls to lower their standards?

Anonymous
I never cared about how much money, or success a guy had ever. Heck, when I was 18 I offered who was two decades older than me pocket money while he was homeless and I was willing to go 50/50 and pay more than him if we ever dated. I wasn't being shallow, or a gold digger but I could kinda tell he didn't really respect me or saw me as a girlfriend... Then he said how he just wanted to fuck at a cheap hotel since he couldn't afford anything else and it got under my skin.

Then there was the other guy. I don't even have high standards, in fact, my standards were lower than most women I know and I took pride in not being shallow but guys keep treating me so poorly. I don't understand it.
Why do guys say that they want girls to lower their standards?
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