What I mean by this is improving your social skills, dressing better, working out, taking care of your face and hygiene, etc... I've seen plenty of self-care videos for men and I ran across this one today.I'm not an Incel by any means, but I think advice like this is a little too naive. I'm a black guy. With this advice, they are basically saying that I can go to Mexico and get a hot Latina girl if I just follow his advice, or go to Russia and get a hot Russian girl. It's just a load of horseshit. To the people that agree with this, why even suggest this? Are you saying that I can go anywhere in the world and get any girl I want (as a black dude) by simply following this advice?