Exactly. Fantasies are almost always better in your head then they are acted out. I was in the swinger lifestyle for many years and had a good time, but it was always better in my head. It's hard to advise someone of that lesson. It's just something you have to live through.
I used to know a woman that was a Swinger. She had a lot of different partners. Then one day she told me she got several STDs and genital herpes. I asked her if she required her partner to wear a condom and she said no because that's just to prevent pregnancy. I looked it up and learned that one can get an STD even if using protection.
Gotta add in the quick hookups.
Yeah I don't keep count to begin with. That's never been important to me. I've always done enough drugs when I was younger to not remember.
I understand. I had a 20yr run with drugs and alcohol, now I've been clean for 5yrs. Oldly enough I never really had blackouts, just brownouts, where I would remember, but it would be fuzzy.
I'd still say 5-10 sounds about right to me. While I did have random hookups I didn't seek them out. I like the relationship sex a lot more.
I know. I screwed up. Thanks for finding the work around and leaving your number in the comments. I also for about 1.
Not sure it matters if it's 1 or 500. One doesn't make you better than the other. It depends on your sexual nature. Everyone is different and sex is just sex regardless of the standard you hold to it.
Hoaah, I just forgot. I meant to go back and change it to 1-4, but forgot and now I can't change it. So few people end up with less than 5 partners after age 35. Congratulations on the marriage. I hope it stays happy.
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They all count.
From 1 to 23 that really really escalated quickly
I liked the update by the way.. I think for me it's about what partner really means and what actually matters to me
Completely agree with you
I have legit known 6 people who's body count was over 100. One was a girl who was only 22. Another one is my current girlfriend.
GROSS. You need standards man.
Wow. That was a pretty strong, and rude, opinion. Some people are more free with sex than others. I've only had 50+ partners, but I don't regret a single one of them and I've never had a STD and neither has any of the people I've been with. Maybe you should ask yourself who it was that imprinted on you that there is a certain number that is acceptable. If you have three partners a year, for 16yrs, it adds up.
Haha, so my opinion bothers you, but having a partner who is a cum sponge for over 100 guys doesn't?No one imprinted anything on me, I can use basic logic to understand that fucking 100 people is gross. Having 3 partners a year is fucked up. No class or dignity at all.
When you live in a big city, are attractive, and make good money, sex just happens. Maybe you're right and I should just stop having sex with beautiful women because some guy on the internet thinks that more than 3 partners a year is too many. HahaKeep eating the same cereal dude.
Not talking about you or your fictional life bud. I was talking in regards to a female with 100 cocks filling her full of dna.
Even though you didn't bother to actually tell everyone your body count, thanks for letting us know what you think about women who sleep with multiple men. I'm curious, how many men do you think a woman is allowed to sleep with before she turns 40?
My wife had one partner before me. She has value because she wasn't used like a community trampoline. Relationships are a huge investment of time, emotion, and money... therefore the other person should be of value.Knowing that everyone around you has had their turn at your partner means you are no more special than anyone else. You are just another cock.Assuming a person lost their virginity at 16, by 30 they shouldn't have racked up a dozen people... If you can't keep someone around for more than a few months at a time, maybe keep it in your pants. 15 partners for anyone is too many and that is a general consensus.30% of people said they were likely to end a relationship if their partner had too many sexual partners. The number most people believe is acceptable is between 8 and 10.\
And this helps you to feel good and justified while you shame other people? Good for you. I hope you sleep well next to your boring, hag of a women who was never worthy enough to actually feel good enough about herself to find a man that was decent at pleasing her. She simply settled on the first halfway decent male that came towards her. Never thought she might deserve to shop for a worthy man. She also seemed to have zero interest in really learning how to hone her abilities so that she could deeply satisfy her future husband. Simple being naked and letting her husband bounce around on her is what she expected would be good enough for him. Especially if she just made sure to find some guy that no one else really wanted, find a guy who also didn't really know what sexual satisfaction really was. Then, they could both wallow in their own mediocrity while they looked at each other and ate warm broth and white bread from dinner. There was zero reason for you to put your foot forward and talk down to anyone for how many partners they had, but you felt it was your duty to make sure the females know that you think they are whores. Congrats. You're a ham sandwich of a person and no one cares.
You came into my comment with your stories man. No one asked you too.This is an OPINION board.My wife looks better and we have crazier sex than any skank you took a few second turn at. Your shaming tactics mean shit to me.They simply show you have nothing else to offer the conversation. You keep trying though.If you don't like other opinions... stay the fuck off OPINION sites. Ya twat.
You sprinkle the internet with shame tactics and then don't like it when they get tossed back at you. You're a school yard bully. No one would ever think that two people who have only ever slept with each other, under the age of 30 know how to have 'crazy sex'
You poor thing. You started this whole thing by doubting that anyone who wasn't a prostitute could even have more that 100 partners. Then you needed to shame any woman who might enjoy sex enough to have more that 15 partners. Now you're trying to defend the only person you've ever had sex with. And she's only ever had sex with you. Talking to you about sex is like talking to some about food, who has only ever eaten at McDonalds. Just because someone has had sex with a lot of people doesn't mean they are immoral or indecent. But you wouldn't understand that because you have a narrow minded, singular view on the subject.
you have hiv don't you?
888, that wasn't nice, or accurate. If you practice safe sex, and really know your partners, then STDs don't happen. I know they teach STD fear in schools to try to get teenagers to not enjoy sex, it's wrong and inaccurate. I suggest chatting with an infectious disease doctor to learn more about how seldom people actually do spead STDs.
you can't know 15 people that well if you are 22, you wouldn't know yourself too well
@888theGreat No, I don't have HIV. Why do you ask? Are you planning on having sex with me?
Did you know that people with HIV can have unprotected sex and not spread it? True fact. Its designated as 'undetectable' The meds that they take now are so successful that they can't even spread it. They figured out that by making the immune system super strong that the body can fully suppress the HIV virus. All it takes is one pill a day.
@Asker Yes, I know. HIV was also cured in a second person last year. That's pretty amazing considering it was almost a death sentence back in the 90s.