Which would girls prefer? A guy who laid it out, he was desperate and everything good and bad about being desperate he had. Or the guy who just didn't give much emotional or physical effort into things. Whether their relationship was going to go some where or not he just doesn't care and lets things be.
- Desperate GuyVote A
- Guy who doesn't careVote B
Most Helpful Girl
If a guy doesn't try...I really don't think there is a relationship there... At least he desperate guy is trying, he wants it to work. The guy who doesn't care cannot be told to care, and then he will do it. Meanwhile you can tell the desparate guy to tone it down, at least you know they care. I would choose the desparate guy because I've already don't the "guy who doesn't care" it drove me insane. I'm slightly high matenence and he required very little...It made me feel unwanted.3