Why almost all the time when I talk to a girl, I have to be the one to ask all the questions and be the one that keeps the conversation alive?

Question

I swear man, it's getting really tired. I have ideas, I have questions, I have cool things to say but at some point I'm getting sick and tired of asking and asking and asking and asking and be the one to start the conversation...
I don't mind doing it, but when I'm the one doing it exclusively there's a problem my dude... and I really can't take this anymore

Answer 1

vany22

Xper 2

Cuz most of the time men are hunters and we are like a prey we should be chased to win us this is human nature even with animals
The females don't go to the males they just try to seduce them with some moves but they don't go to them same for humans it's their natural instincts

Asker

6 mo
Well, I don't know how to tell ya but this hunter has had enough of if, I'd rather start talking more to other hunters and do fun stuff than spending hours trying to keep conversations alive. No offense.
vany22

6 mo
Emm okay as u like 🤷‍♀️

Answer 2

Asker

Well, I don't know how to tell ya but this hunter has had enough of if, I'd rather start talking more to other hunters and do fun stuff than spending hours trying to keep conversations alive. No offense.

Answer 3

vany22

Emm okay as u like 🤷‍♀️

Answer 4

SarahsSummer | 4.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Maybe yo are choosing shy girls or those who dont really know how to have a conversation. If you are dating women who dont even ask you about yourself at all, you need to view these as a red flag and move on.

Asker

6 mo
I'm using mostly dating apps but almost all the time I'm the one doing the talking really... their answers are rather short and they don't even ask me back things. Example: How are you? not even a "and you?".
Anyway.. I've only met one girl who did this and she was the most amazing girl I met on dating apps and my only actual girlfriend there.
SarahsSummer

6 mo
You you employ open ended questions when talking with girls?

Answer 5

Asker

I'm using mostly dating apps but almost all the time I'm the one doing the talking really... their answers are rather short and they don't even ask me back things. Example: How are you? not even a "and you?".
Anyway.. I've only met one girl who did this and she was the most amazing girl I met on dating apps and my only actual girlfriend there.

Answer 6

SarahsSummer

You you employ open ended questions when talking with girls?

Answer 7

Anonymous

If she says she's into you give her time to speak, I have railroaded girls that liked me because I spoke too quick and didn't let it simmer. Also if you prioritize your own ideas over hers you are already shutting her out. If she's not into you move on.

Answer 8

Gwenhwyfar | 665 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Maybe you talk to shy girls. Or girls who aren’t that interested.

Why almost all the time when I talk to a girl, I have to be the one to ask all the questions and be the one that keeps the conversation alive?

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