Guys, what would you think of a girl who saved her firsts for the right guy but wasn’t extremely attached to being “pure”?

[thegirlfromthething]

“Firsts” as in first kiss, first boyfriend, first time having sex, etc.
I’ve been into guys before but I’ve never really made an effort to pursue them and it’s very rare that I’m attracted to someone, physically and/or emotionally. So if I did go for a guy I must think he’s really something and we could have a future together. This does mean that I have no previous romantic or sexual partners, to the point that I’ve never even held someone’s hand or been in the “talking” stage with a guy.
I’ve noticed among girls who are also waiting for the right guy that some of them have this “I’m precious and I’m not like other girls because I respect myself and stay pure” attitude. I don’t think of my abstinence from sex and dating that way. It’s not about being virtuous, being better than girls who have done more than me, or respecting my future husband; it’s about wanting to have these experiences with the right guy so we can both enjoy them properly. Guys, at least here, seem to like the first mindset I described- so would your experiences with your girlfriend feel less meaningful if she picked you for her first time but she didn’t have that focus on purity?

Updates:

[Anonymous]

To answer your question. If her focus was not on remaining pure, which by the way is highly desirable, but rather just that she found me first, than there is no reason to view her as any different than the rest of the girls that will sleep with any guy. You are arguing that I am special due to coming up first in the Monte Carlo process, which is nonsensical. Being your first of many is not reassuring since your mindset is still on the "many".

[American_Centurion]

Ben Carson called it years ago.

"White liberals are the most racist people there is, because they put black people in a box and insist they think one way-- and if they dont, they attack them as illegitimate, all the while denying their policies destroy blacks"

Dr Ben Carson

[Gwenhwyfar]

If I was a guy I’d love that. I think a lot of guys you might be interested in would appreciate a girl with your mindset. Makes them feel special.

[Sha84]

people like this never find right one because her prudish behavior is circulated and everyone becomes uninterested including the right guy

[loveslongnails]

That's a nice take on it. The other point is that people who "save themselves" for marriage can say they've accomplished one thing - they're virgins. It doesn't mean their "pure" or have earned a greater degree of "respect" than others, because you don't what else they've done in their lives ! All they can say is "I've never had sexual relations" previously... that's it !

[COMMODOREII]

You mean a virgin who chose me to be her guy? Actually i would be honored. Though i would hope to give her the best experience possible because you always remember the person who have your firsts with.

[Massageman]

I would think she is probably in the majority of gal's thinking.

[OpenNudist]

To honestly answer your question. You Individually can have a full orgasm without sexual intercourse

[bamesjond0069]

I dont think its quite as ideal but id certainly co sider you a high quality woman vs all these hos.

[shortster]

Do you mean pure in the religious sense or pure in the disease sense?

[888theGreat]

I think they are very moral , and would make a great mother for having children.

[SuperHeroMan]

i would brefer a girl that picked me for the first time, and have a focus on purity more,

[es20490446e]

Just trust your feeling.

[crazygus77]

I would think no different of her

[korey182]

that would be cool

[7771999]

Good 👍🏻