Have you ever loved someone and they didn’t love you back?

[Aguysopinion4799]

... Yeah, a lot of times.
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3 of them were girls, 1 of them was a guy

the 1st was a situation that could of been avoided, I told my mate that i liked a certain girl and he told her, she then said that things may have been different if i had the courage to tell her myself.

The 2nd was never going to happen, she was a popular girl with so many guys liking her and I never built the courage to ever tell her.

the 3rd was a girl who I realised was the one I could never get over, she was in our friend group and she was the only one I ever told I liked her by myself, I got rejected but in a respectful way and it still hurt of course, I didn't get over her for 6 years. She was a case where I believed we could have married and had a family and been happy together, but that was obviously not the case.

The 4th was a guy in my college from 2 years ago and we worked together all the time, we got real close and relied on each other a lot. I realised that i liked his appearance and his personality, but when I told him, he shook it off as a joke, turned out he was high when I told him, so my courage to tell him again was shattered, it took all my courage to tell him once, so if I told him again it would be devastating.

I stayed in contact with the 3rd girl, but recently I have not been in contact with her, I felt like not being in contact would help me get over her, it did help me get over her but I also feel bad because we were best friends.

I tried to stay in contact with the guy, but when he suddenly started ghosting me on messenger, I decided to delete his contact with me, only to then recently be getting comments from him on my Instagram, not rude stuff, just weirdly he was messaging me on my posts, so I unfollowed him and basically got rid of any kinds of contacts I had to him.

I felt angry about how he responded to my confession, how he ghosted me for so long then tried to behave like it never happened, so I decided that I wasn't going to be a part of this shitty teasing game he was playing.

We are talking about 2 years of being ghosted and then suddenly he behaves like it never happened.

I would message him asking him
"Hey man, you alright?"
"Hey, just wanted to ask how you and your girlfriend are"
"Got any plans over holidays?"
"Dude, please just respond so I know you're safe"

And these all said they were read and he never wrote back, so I got pissed off, I even messaged his girlfriend, asking her what was wrong and she said he was going through a rough patch, but how does that warrant him reading a simple message and ignoring it, it was a simple one to just say he was okay, just to show he was alive even.

So I got sick of him playing this painful and cruel game with me and believed deleting all contact with him was the right choice for sure.

[leftis25]

My ex. I completely cut all contacts off.. how did i feel? I felt i pain i never felt before in my life
I was in bed ever night crying my self to sleep and feeling intense pain to my heart then my stomach and then all over my body very strong intense pain like... i had explosions inside of me and i couldnt stop it.. then i would dream about her that we are back together and when i would wake up in the morning and realize it was a dream i would cry again.. i was like this for 2 months every night.. at 3rd month i was just crying 2-3 times a week and now 4 months later she is back with her ex and i didn't really care.. she was playing with me and she is not worth it.. worst persom i ever met in my life.. i hope i won't see her ever again.. no matter how much i love her..

[CapricornHoney]

Yep - completely stopped contact as much as I could in the beginning. About 2 and a half years later we connected again but purely only as friends. I felt devastated at the time but I’m all good with the situation now. I’ve moved on.

[Anonymous]

For more than 10 years I was madly in love with a girl who saw me as a lapdog for attention and she would fuck these ugly gargoyle tards and then complain to me about them.
Eventually I woke up a cut her put of my life.

[Keyspirit]

Why would u do that when u could be LUVin' me rn. Tsk tsk tsk 😔😔😔

[nodnol32]

My ex girlfriend.

[korey182]

i think so : l

[Anonymous]

Every girl I like