Do girls want relationship with attractive guy when they mean they want nice guy?

[Barbaric]

They want the guys they're attracted to to be nice. Niceness doesn't cause attraction.

It's the same for you as a guy. You meet a girl you're attracted to, and you hope that she's nice. Maybe she turns out to be a bitch so you don't pursue her. But the initial attraction wasn't caused by her being nice.

A girl you're not attracted to who is really nice is still not going to be attractive to you right? Unless you have no standards at all when it comes to attraction.

Attraction is caused by other things. As a man, it's things such as confidence, sense of humour, intelligence, ambition, non-neediness as well as obviously looking good. Perhaps even boldness.

Guys who want to impress women based on how nice they are tend to lack those traits, the behavioural traits in particular. Looks play a part but so does personality. Even with personality guys make the mistake of thinking that when a woman says that she likes a guy for his personality she means a guy who is really nice, when it's really the other stuff I mentioned above.

[Truthatanycost]

Do not listen to what any women say period, only watch what they do. Take a look around and note what they are really going for and you will see. Take everything they say with a giant pinch of salt...

[Anonymous]

Yes my first and most important criteria of being with someone is how they look, also behaviour matters