Should I tell women that I'm a virgin?

Question

That's right. I've never had sex before, even though I've had a few chances to loose my V-card. Mostly because I'm risk averse. Should I be volunteering this information or keeping it a secret when I meet a woman on a date?

Answer 1

pajamasam | 170 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

You should definitely tell her, but maybe wait for a second or third date, or wait until it comes up in conversation. If you just blurt that info out without context a girl may interpret it wrong. Ahe may assume that your just trying to use her to punch your v card instead of having a legitimate relationship and that will put a girl off.

Do tell her, but do it organically, wait until you know her a little better or wait until sex comes up in conversation.

Answer 2

_SOARER

Xper 7

Keep it to yourself, if your goal is to only get laid
I would reccomend you find a woman you actually feel a strong connection too and is someone who doesn't trigger your risk aversion. A companion... even a woman you could consider a wife

D_Rockville

5 mo
There's also the saving sex for marriage thing. Which used to be the norm. I'm religious and sex outside of marriage is not allowed.
_SOARER

5 mo
Keep the faith and abstain. Try looking for a religious woman who shares your faith and values.

Answer 3

D_Rockville

There's also the saving sex for marriage thing. Which used to be the norm. I'm religious and sex outside of marriage is not allowed.

Answer 4

_SOARER

Keep the faith and abstain. Try looking for a religious woman who shares your faith and values.

Answer 5

stormyclouds

Xper 4

That is your business and you don't need to share with a stranger on a first date. You don't have to tell it on a first date. Wait until you're ready to discuss it No pressure. I didn't have sex until I was 26. I told my current boyfriend an hour before our date thinking it would scare him off. It did not. He waited a very long time before I was comfortable with the idea. I sort of jumped him when I was I ready and he wasn't expecting!

Answer 6

Anonymous

I mean if it comes up don't lie about it... I wouldn't just randomly say it on a date though

Answer 7

PrudentGuy | 305 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Keep it to yourself until the topic on sex comes out. Then coolly says "while I had sex ed, I'm still a virgin".

Most girls are ok with guys being virgins. Hence no worries.

Answer 8

chriscdi | 2.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

I do because I'm open and secure, people don't like it Then they can leave ha

Answer 9

vibes2002

Xper 1

I'd wait until a later date, when relevant, maybe the 4th or 5th date It may seem weirdly forward/odd to say it on the first date.

Answer 10

slatyb | 4.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

When you are about to do it. Not before

Answer 11

angiebangie

Xper 6

Keep it to yourself until a good time to share.

Answer 12

Anonymous

nope never tell women
they will think less of you

Answer 13

Cryptic-Game | 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Only if it is the truth.

Answer 14

Pejtu | 862 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Keep it for yourself

Answer 15

Fuentes | 1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Your choice

Answer 16

COMMODOREII | 4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

That depends.

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