How do I stop doing this to myself?

So this dude goes on and on about how this girl is a hoe this n that but as soon as she starts paying attention to him. he starts to like her for real and this is why I never listen to guys wen we talk about females. because at the end of the day you can say simp this and that but why would I listen to you just to end up alone. just like you or fuck up and let someone else get the opportunity it didn’t make me mad. at him because that was my friend but I did feel embarrassed like I messed up so I wasn’t really listening to the negative. comments but I was just hearing them out wasn’t making a move because I didn’t want them to look at me as simp and I don’t know why worry about how they see me.
How do I stop doing this to myself?
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