Approached a girl for the first time, got awkward. did I mess up by being so weird?

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have been seeing this shy girl 4-5 days a week for the last 10 months now. she did smile at me once, but im not sure if this was meant for me, so i just quickly looked down because im shy. we made lots eye contact after so i took my chance and approached her.

we said hi to each other and i asked her name. i didn't really know what to say so we just stood there in awkward silence for a few seconds.
this is where it got weird. i didn't know what to say i asked her if she didn't mind that im talking to her, to which she said no, and then i asked her if we could talk for 2 minutes. she said what i wanted to talk about. i froze up, said "never mind", and left.

she did seem comfortable so im not sure if she is actually creeped out or not. a day after a friend of hers asked her about it and she said that our convo was normal.

the next 2 days she started to behave weird. she completely ignored me, not even looking at me, so i didn't talk to her. however, the next 2-3 days she started to look at me again, but i didn't react to it. i can see from my peripheral vision that she'll look when im not looking. she'll also sometimes check over her shoulder to see if im still in the room.

whats going on?

1. was my nervousness obvious to her?
2. did i come off weird?
3. some friends told me i may have hurt her feeling sfor brushing her off like that. is that possible?
Approached a girl for the first time, got awkward. did I mess up by being so weird?
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