No I know studs who will wait longer than a week for sexual aspects
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Hence why for a very long time I don’t give him sex If he liked me for real he’d stat
@hsshannah96 men will fake that investment to get the sex. For the most part men have to have the sex before they even consider really investing their feelings. He'll tell you what you want to hear in order to get some. Once that has happened he then will consider a relationship. He wants a test drive first.
This is the issue. They usually turn out to be abusive if they fake investment That’s what my exes did
The guys that want the test drive are certainly not ones I want to be with. I don’t want a manipulative individual. And again, if they leave me because they aren’t getting some, (doesn’t matter how much they fake it), Then they evidently didn’t actually care about me. Or my personality. Just my body parts. and no dude is going to fake investment for 6 months to one year. They’ll just leave. That’s how we weed out the guys we don’t want
Ah great, so now I have to exceed my body count with more abusive dicks just to give guys the “test drive” they need F off 😂😂😂
@hsshannah96 No need to get hostile. I hear you that you are a prude. Good luck landing and keeping a guy-the only one who would wait that long has LOSER tattooed all across his forehead. Probably not a lot of competition trying to get into your panties though
I’m not a prude I’m protecting myself
I was not trying to be hostile I was stating facts Unfortunately, you can’t see outside your own perspective it seems
People wanting to “get in my panties” isn’t a compliment. It’s an insult. It says “the only thing you’re good for is a spot for my cum” “I don’t want to get to know you at all, your personality, what you enjoy, what pushes your buttons, etc”
They actually will wait long enough. They don’t love me then, if they don’t. They love my vagina, sure. Not me. And it’s literally the trash taking itself out when they don’t wait for us to be more bonded first
As a sexual assault victim, I feel so hurt and insulted when one guy says “take it as a compliment if they want to have sex with you” That’s not a compliment. It just means they need a cum bucket. I have more to offer than two bags of fat and a vagina. I have a personality, that feels joy, sadness, anger, frustration, love for children. I have desires, such as to be respected, valued, cherished, my company enjoyed. My intellect enjoyed I have dreams. Such as to go to somewhere new, like Australia or somewhere in South America. To make one million dollars one day. To hike at least some of a small mountain. I have wants and needs. Human beings are more than sex toys and I wish more of the world could see that.
You didn’t listen to a word I said.
We have sex Then they yell at me and turn nasty Then we break up. EVERY TIME. I’m not doing that anymore
And if you don’t they get rid of you then too Most guys were raised awful.
@hsshannah96 if you don't, then you learn very quickly whether or not they were actually interested in YOU or not. See? Yes, most people in general were raised awful, men and women, and when you aren't just looking for sex and not giving off those vibes, you learn that truth so, soooo quickly. Which is lonely but better, because when you do find someone, it will be real, and you'll be able to tell the difference.
Yeah but I also gave a crappy person my body I won’t be doing that anymore
I never was just looking for sex!
@hsshannah96 ooh bad move XD better make sure not to make that mistake again. Fool you once shame on them, fool you twice, shame on you. Most people aren't just looking for sex or at least they won't admit it, but they do allow themselves to be tempted by it and that influences there actions.
Right now I need you to stop because I know allllll of that
They didn’t fool. Me. My first ex assaulted me.
@hsshannah96 sorry to hear that. In that case you didn't give your body to anyone then, it was taken by force
but I felt you assumed that I just freely give it to every guy. I only have two exes And the first one got in my face
really? and how will that work? please... entertain me...
@Tdieseler Been around the block, it isn't hard to tell when a guy is just looking for a piece of ass. Luckily we have the privilege of saying no and moving on to someone who is looking for something more serious.
lool..."it isn't hard to tell..."... dont all you girls assume the same? I've just said HI go a girl i met at walmart and she looked at me like i wanted a piece of ass... i just said hi...and yea... luckily YOU do... some women dont, and its those women that i wonder for... and the idiotic men that try that irritate me. Now, back to me... are you trying to tell me that women themselves dont advertise? while you were "around the block"... were you in a nun outfit?
@Tdieseler The hell you so triggered about? Sorry you ran across a lunatic, don't project that onto me. No I think the "advertisement" theory is flawed and weird.
@Marilynjuanayou dont wana go there with me hon, im not triggered, just asked a question. If you want to Go, we can, but it will NOT end well... for you
@Tdieseler Not triggered huh :D. YOUR knickers are in a twist, not mine, love. Toodles!
that is the smart play honey... toodles as well. you dont want to get into this with me. I've LIVED this shit...if u dont know the meaning, google "decimation" and that is exactly what i would do if you push any further... my point stands... my point happens...but you let it go... so am i.
@Tdieseler Try me.
thought we were over this boo boo... we werent. we said toodles...
@Tdieseler You dare threaten me, I pick you up on it, sweet muffin :3
not threatening... im just saying you dont want this... i'll decimate every idea you bring up... and add a little more for ur pleasure. screw the age... i know WHY she is or thinks she is just a hook up... know why? im a fucking guy... are you?
You don’t sound too intimidating if that’s what you’re going for. I don’t care about why anyone uses anyone for hookups, like I stated, if they attempt to, move on. I’d rather be in charge of my decisions instead of trying to figure out why others use me. You know?