Are you angry if your date doesn't offer to pay?

[Anonymous]

As a girl of course I was raised that the guy pays for dates and not to expect anything less and even if the girl offers to pay , the man is suppose to decline and pay anyway. If he doesn't i would just see him as a friend and we are just buddies hanging out.
I know some men HATE this but most girls are raised this way too and we grow up watching in ever movie/TV show ever.

So how much anger is there toward this?

Updates:

[virtue2332]

I understand as I was raised the same way. You should also stay home with the kids and have dinner ready when I get home from work. Breakfast in the morning along with my suit and newspaper. Oh and the boss will be over for lunch so lets tidy up and try to impress. Seriously I would feel awkward if a girl pd but you see how things that use to be expected to be a certain way sound crazy now right. Im just saying we should all have an open mind when we raise our kids and understand that times change and its okay for a girl to pay for her meal if thats what she is comgortable with. I have all girls 3 and I have to have an open mind when it comes to gender biases because they are as quick to point out when Im not up to date.

[cooldog980sw]

Tbh that's kinda a sexist mentality. That's like guys saying that because he paid for your meal and because you're a girl, he's entitled to sleep with you.

The majority of the time, I pay for my girlfriend's meals, but sometimes we split it, and sometimes she buys. Money shouldn't be so one sided. That's back to the mentality that guys should be working to provide for the family and that only girls should be home to raise the kids. Relationships are about being equal. 1 sided relationships don't last

[AaronKrieger]

This is how I see it.

Whoever asked the other person out on the date should be the one paying for it. It doesn't matter if the person asking is a girl or a boy. If the person that was asked out offers to pay half, then yeah that's nice of the person and go ahead, do it.

[winterfox10]

I've never gotten angry at the girl not offering to pay. If we've gone out a few times though, I should hope that you could start kicking some money into things eventually, because that becomes a statement about your willingness to invest in our relationship. Just small things, like if I buy our dinner and you want to go watch a movie afterwards, it would be nice if you offered to pay for my ticket. Or maybe even something smaller, like you buy us ice cream.

[Reaperbot666]

I typically say 50/50 or go douche while dating. but once we're a legit couple then I'll pay most of the time.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y4E8qEDi_xg

[Lliam]

Not at all. If I ask someone on a date, I don't expect them to pay. It's my treat. They're my guest. But if someone asks me on a date, it pretty odd if they expect me to pay for everything.

[CikaZivan]

As a guy, i'm raised to pay on dates, and i'd pay regardless whether she offered or not.
The only difference is that i'd have much better opinion about a woman who at least offered to pay.
A girl that is persistant, and still wants to pay even though i said i'd pay, she's even worse than the ones who didn't offer.

[AdithyaR]

Well you should know movies and tv shows aren't reality.
Besides most guys don't mind paying but it seems annoying if we're doing it because the girl feels entitled to it.
My rule is that the person who invites is the one who pays. So if I ask her out, I pay, if she asked me out, she pays. And if it's a blind date, we should split for the first couple dates. Once in a relationship, it can always go back and forth with each oke paying during different times.

[asshole_]

I will always pay. Guy, always pays. That's how it is, and if he isn't, he's not a good guy, however, if she's not at least offering to pay, I get irritated because then it looks like she's just after me for my money

[BeMuse]

If that’s how a girl acts she can’t ever get close to me. That’s pretty much all there is to that. Act like a prostitute, get treated like one.

[hellacray]

Ok... Well I was raised to find a pretty girl that knows how to cook and take care of kids.

[admles]

I don't know about anger, but it certainly speaks volumes about her entitled character.