My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a month now kinda long distance(he lives 8 hours away right now). A couple weeks ago he came up to visit me and went on a job interview at a local ranch. Well it turns out he got the job and will be moving up here in a couple months(June) and is talking about moving in together. I don't know if I'm ready for that, I'm pretty independent and love my personal space, but I do love him and having him around and it would be nice to have his company. So what do you think, is 3 months(will be in June) too soon to be moving in together?
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I'd be very careful about moving in with someone that quickly. I moved in with my ex after three months and he turned into a raging lunatic once I did. Then I ended up staying in an unhappy/unhealthy relationship for over two years because I felt like I was stuck.
Sure you could move in and things could work out fine, but they might not either. Three months isn't that long to get to know someone. I'd wait if I were you. Also, if you tell him no and he tries to pressure or guilt you into it, watch out.0