True. I guess I'm just petty
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If you are still single at 35, you will begin to approach men.From a male perspective, it is fascinating to watch the reversal in the sexual power dynamic after women are on the wrong side of 30.Women begin to figure out that Feminism and Sex in the City lied to them.They realise that it was wrong to put a career ahead of children and a husband.At that point, the women become proactive to find a man before their last egg turns to dust.Older women have said that at 38 a woman who is still single will kill to get the type of men who she rejected when she was 18.
Sir I am a celibate women who have no desire to be involved with a man whatsoever in my life. I had made that decision since I was 12 years old. I would never go around approaching man because I know it's not my job to be chasing after men. It's my job to be focusing on the things of the Lord and being able to take care of myself and being able to live and survive. I have no interest in having sex, I have no interest in having a family, I have no interest in being involved with anyone. I have dealt with enough, and I am not looking to get myself involved in simple matters they're going to God forbid put me in hell on account of the desires of the flesh. At this point, I honestly don't care about it. I am happy if not overall just content with my life, and I have more important things to be worried about. I'm not staying in this country any longer, I am moving out, and I'm going to live my life elsewhere. It's men really want is something serious, they would have waited until marriage to have sex, they would have a serious relationship with the Lord and his stable and things of God, they will be prepared to have their own home, Provisions to provide for me, and they would have done what they had to do. That's not what these boys were doing between the ages of 10 and 18. They were too busy full around. And I was not going to wish my life on something stupid as that. Know if men got their act together and did what they had to do many women will not be pursuing a career because of career nowadays is replacing men. They need to seriously think about that. Not all of us is called into marriage and having companionship.
@cth96190 some women do prefer a career over marriage and kids. Not at women turn into desperate crazies when they hit 30.
this is bad advice OP dont listen to this
@AdithyaRWell in actuality it has left to do that we prefer career over marriage and kids but the real question is exactly what I had questioned in many questions. What is the point? A lot of men no longer wants to do their duties anymore as it was in the days of old. Now we are given so many options that we really have to settle for anything less than that. That goes for anybody. Back in ancient times men and women did not have those opportunities. If you wanted to get married, you were married who you were arranged to, or who you were approved to marry. Or else you didn't get married at all. If you waited especially as a woman to get married and never got married before 21 as it is in some places like China, you would be seen as an old maid. But nobody wanted ugly people, and other things as well. Now that we all have the freedom to choose, it's forcing people to be more selfish.
@gilrwithsomeqsDon't worry. The wisdom of the Lord is more important than the ways of worldly men and women. When they're in error theu blame the error on women as Adam blamed Eve.
At the end of the day God is also in control. If you wants somebody to be in a marriage, it would be given and provided so. It ain't what man wants and is not what a woman wants. It's what God wants. And it will happen at his time for he is in control. Not us. It is over all our free will to choose whether we want to be in it or not. Plus one going to be involved with a man for other than having a friend? What is there for me? Why do I need it? What is the point of it? How is it benefiting any of us? What is the purpose? There is so much more to life than any of that silly stuff. Is this was the 1700 or 1800 then maybe. 2020? The 21st century? Hell no. Singleness may be hard but it's not a curse. If I'm not wanted but for my body why bother? Too many desperate people out here, and they dont even love themselves. Many haven't been taught, others forsaken it for Worldly pleasure. That's not who I am. And I refuse to become one with that. There is no point in having a desire that isn't going to last and it's all based on the flesh anyway. In truth I have nothing to lose. I've been through enough suffering.
So if I hit past 30 at least I would get some type of peace and I won't have other people harassing me about something that they won't even bother to give without a price anyway. If that's so called love I don't want it. I already got a husband and that's my Lord. As long as I have him I need nothing else. So anything that a man wants to say to me he better look at himself because I've been made blameless. I kept my virginity, I honored my mother and father , I stayed to myself, never watch pornography or dabbled masturbation, I never fool around with any man, or with a woman, I don't lust, thankfully I have no STDs, or children out of wedlock. I don't have all that dating baggage. My only ones that I got is the mental, physical psychological, emotional, and spiritual abuse from people. And a bad experiences I had with these men who had no respect for a Godly woman. Who judge me for things that I never done. I should not have to suffer for others choices. So once again, I have nothing to lose. Because the ones that are now begging are men. The same boys I told and was willing to give a chance didn't want it. They wanted sex, an experience, to be irresponsible. They wasn't going to be my friend, or turn to God or respect my sexual innocence. Those same ones ask if I'm still one, and to their shock I am. They made their choices. I made mine. If they really wanted anything serious, they should have thought about that years ago. Why should I desire something I never had? Men can do whatever it is that they please. It's their life their choice. Like I told plenty if I am such a bad woman or not worth it then at least do me a favor: Just keep me out of it. What's past is past and I want it left there. So plenty of you people need to think long and hard about why you desire companionship. Life is too short.
Oh no, I'm not in this situation. It's just a random thought.Personally if this happened, I wouldn't accept them cause if theg didn't like me back then, then won't like me now and also I'm petty that way. 😅
Rejecting doesn't always mean that someone didn't have feelings for you. For example my mother passed on and a guy asked me out and I turned him down. Does that make me a bad person? No does that mean I didn't like him ! No. Life is very complicated like that. Everything is not so black and white. That's my opinion anyways
I completely agree. It's not always cause they don't like us.Hence I added the clause that I'm petty sometimes😁