Sometimes it's good to wait.I mostly follow because I prefer to wait things out, while she pushes for more and more.
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This is the idealistic idea and I really like it, but I have been noticing that sadly the reality is grittier in many cases.
Yes, agreed.Ask a dark question and I might give a dark answer. I am certainly not opposed to those too. I can be cynical and condemning too. Just depends on the question and context. Your questions don't bring that side out in me typically though.
I understand.I think it can be a good thing to switch between lighter and darker stuff.I've been told I flip-flop about those things in an almost staggering way, but I think it's just human nature.
But then again, I do not have the most healthy mindset here.
From some days to a few weeks
oh yeah for sure. that person is desperate to get with someone. everyone should be suspicious about that kind of thing.
It was just a thought
It's not a crime and I never said so.I just used that expression because both girls I've had long relationships with seemed very popular and confident at first and then it turned out they were both lonely and marginalized women.By the way, you are being off-topic and didn't answer the question.
But were they good people? Were they compatible with you?
Somewhat.My ex had lots of problems and she's basically antisocial.My fiancée is fundamentally a good person but I understand why she has few friends and is marginalized.
Why is your fiancé marginalized?Is she a different person than the average person
She's got unsavory tastes
You have to be careful with those kinds of people. If they fall for you after just a few conversations it's a huge red flag. The girls who fell for me too quickly were always crazy.
@KostasKouvalis They usually fall out of love quickly too so
That happened with me. She jumped from guy to guy
@KostasKouvalis I had multiple guys fall for me at work without having said a single word to them but they don't seem like the crazy type just very clingy, insecure and jealous (but the kind that appear boring and annoying quickly).
No word? They must've just thought you were attractive
@KostasKouvalis Yea, but is it kind of awkward to just stare at my face all the time when I was eating or working (his friends called him out of it a lot and he got embarrassed).And the other asked my number to my mother but he never said a word to me (while he isn't the type to be shy he's very outgoing and extrovert).They're weird people.
WTF? That's awkward as hell! Some lady at my work tried to see me up with her disabled niece and wanted me to talk to her on the phone. Hey, can we chat either in PM or on Insta if you have time?