What if the arguments are resolved each time?
I would say one or both people get off on a negative escalation, and are looking for some type of high to ping their brains. Does one or both people also like high-risk situations or extreme sports, etc?
I crave negative escalation. And yes I like high risk situations. You’re correct
[pats herself on head]Well if it is causing any long term negatives in your relationships (built up resentment, criticisms blurted out in an uncontrolled and impulsive manner that one later regrets, etc.), then maybe try and find some other alternatives to pinging your brain.But if your current partner agrees and is fine with it, then carry on. Maybe you both need it, and it is not damaging.
He doesn’t really like it, but he deals with it very well
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