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When it comes to long term dating.
Oh, well that depends on the girl and how mature she is mentally for me.If I recognize she is mature, and is serious about having a relationship, then yes of course I will take her serious.I can tell you though, I didn't really start to mature mentally myself even until about a year or so ago.It's like a switch wa ms turned on in my brain, and I noticed the maturity that wasn't there before.I see myself longing for a deep long-term fulfilling relationship with a girl that wasn't fully there a few years ago.It is true that you do want different things when you are younger as opposed to older.(I know this was long, sorry about that), but if she was serious, and I loved her, yes of course I would take her serious.
There is no such thing as 'the wall'. God designed us to be taken care of by YOU. It's not for you to be with a person who doesn't take life seriously. Be with people who have equal standards and shares the same values as you. It's a choice, regardless if people change.
Be a role model. We, women, take on after who we are supposed to be lead by which is a man. If a man is not with Christ and is out of order, then so will the woman. Otherwise, a woman will do what she has to do to be in order without a man by latching onto the things God leads her to do. Nobody panics over some invisible. We panic over the fear YOU try to install in us. When we don't walk in fear, everything comes in right for our lives while yours is in shambles because you want to control. Don't be with a person who has entitlement. Being entitled is not the issue. It's entitle-MENT. As long as your not trying to force a relationship on a person, let them live their life however they see fit. Just as long as they don't drag you down in the dumps along with them.
@btbc92 bah haha... yeah sure. Women hit a wall. They become desperate and pathetic. They finally see how they treated me for the first 30 years. The rest of your nonsense religious nonsense was typical gibberish.
No. Women don't hit the wall. No oh, what it is is that you're nothing but a better guy who don't even know how to love himself. So now you want other people to be miserable along with you. Misery loves company. Why should a woman be involved with someone like you who just wants to use them and abused them. And sorry to tell you I am not religious. Just because I believe in God doesn't make me religious. What it is that you don't like the truth about yourself. Guys like you spread that fear. If women did not have that kind of fear being dumped on them they would not be feeling like to have to be desperate in the first place. I learned the hard way there's nothing to be desperate about if there's nothing for you to be given in the first place.
Bitter guy*The truth is nobody is even looking for you. You have nothing to offer a woman. You're just there because your male.
Better to be single and learn to be happy, instead of being in a relationship and still be miserable. If you were so much of a good man you would have had somebody long ago. Your the entitled one.
@btbc92 Congratulations. You have done what is expected of people losing arguments.
I ain't here to argue with you. So you're being ridiculous in spewing that crap. None of that garbage you're putting up have anything to do with what is being said. The truth is you are bitter. No man in his right mind acts like you do, and say what you're saying. I am not afraid of having an adult conversation with you or anybody else. You just act too childish and be the very hypocrite you claim that other women are doing. I never once dated in my life or done any of that crazy crap. Because what your talking about is females that don't fit your liking. So stop with the hypocrisy. Let's look at your past and your choices with women and see where you have the right the judge, which is probably none.
Honestly, what woman or girl treated you so badly that you couldn't find anybody who would at least treat you with common decency? We know there are bad women out there with and poor character and judgment. But you claiming anything of that list about myself is very much wrong. I know because I was once bitter like that. But I had good reasons why. You on the other hand just like to attack women regardless and have nerve to bring up religion, which tends to have some good women equally, if not a bit more than secular women. Sounds like you are just a rejected soul who again, likes to spread his misery to other people. You seek attention and it does warrant you to get HELP. No assumptions here. That is just you.
It's 35 we start to take serious