Is it rude if someone doesn't dress up for a first date?

Commander_Red
i don't understand my dating luck, but everytime I have a date, I always dress nicely for whatever place we are going. I even put extra time in doing my makeup. However, for whatever reason, whenever I meet the guy, he always looks like he's not trying whatsoever.

Now don't get me wrong. Im not expecting him to show up in a suit and tie, but like a decent button up shirt, clean jeans, and shoes that didn't look like they've been dragged in the mud would be nice.

I just feel like, "what's the point? If you can show up like a slob, I might as well show up like a slob to our next date too." It's really annoying tbh.
Is it rude if someone doesn't dress up for a first date?
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